Thread: Hard Decision

I am afraid you are only going to get hurt worse, in the end. You cannot make someone change, or make them come to the same realizations. I tried to do that with someone (results were devastating). You are bf/gf right now, you see what is making you unhappy, you don't need to prolong it, you will just get more tenatious & more unhappy.

Well see this time around I am numb to the pain because of him breaking up with me a month ago... We both know what we need to fix. He's just not giving 100% into it. I have wrote a letter to him describing how I feel about everything. I am not really good with words when I'm talking to him, so I had to write the letter to help him understand things from my point of view. Hopefully it makes him realize that we both have to give 100% into fixing our relationship if we truly want to be happy.