Thread: *is lost in the dating world*

Hi Ashley. Dating can be a little awkward at first, no matter what. But you've already had one experience, you must have learned a little bit from it. Try and take what you've learned and apply it to a new situation.

It might help to become friends with someone you like, first, rather than thinking about dating right away. That way you could have time to get comfortable with each other without there being any expectations at first. And then hopefully the rest of the stuff can come naturally.

Really, having a boyfriend isn't much different to having a best friend... in the sense that if you have common interests, have things to talk about, have things you both like to do, then your relationship should come easily. Not forced, not awkward.

So think about what kind of person you not only see yourself being best friends with... but kissing and all the rest of it as well.

When I was a freshman in high school I had a HUGE crush on a senior guy. Lemme tell ya, I think if you can help it, that it's not a particularly good idea. Probably better to see if there are any noteworthy guys closer to your grade/age. The senior might not only have completely different interests (would you be able to hang out with him and his friends, for example?) but he'll also be graduating in a year, while you'll still be in high school for another 3. Something to think about!