Should I date him?
I have known this guy for almost a year now and in that time he was been nothing but supportave and willing to help. I talk to almost everyday and he is the one usually starting the texts(i do sometimes). A few weeks ago he told be he liked me and we have been out a couple of times since. My only hesitation is I do work with him not a long term job but certainly a job i would like to keep for at least a few more years. He is also 32 and i am 20, is that too much of an age gap for the relationship to work?
Soha,
Being supportive and helping you, reminds me at 32 verses 20, of a "Father figure" someone there for you, just like your Father was or a Father should be..
He has been single for 12 months? And before that? Do you know his background when it comes to relationships because that will be an important factor I believe.
Are there rules at your work place that you can not date co-workers?
As far as age goes, it's a number. However, I would be questioning why a guy spends 12 months helping me, texting me, and waits 12 months to ask me out, what is his life behind all of that, now and in the past...
What type of music does he like, travel, his goals and dreams? Does he want children, does he have children, if so, how do you feel of being a step-mother, if not, why has he not developed a relationship of "marriage" in the true sense at 32...
Because when you are 25 and he is 37, you will still want to be around the youth and the things young women do but he will be starting to mature into a different lifestyle that may not suit you both...
Dating is one thing, falling into a relationship is another at 20 years of age.
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
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