Thread: What counts as "cheating"?

He promised to "delete the girl" and once again cut all contact because he "realized how important I am to him". Yeah, it took him three years of fighting to realize that? Also, he said he would delete her yesterday. I looked today and they're still Facebook friends.

Sweets, Pay attention to Your Words here !!!!

Yeah, it took him three years of fighting to realize that?

1) How Many Years of Fights ?

2)How many Years are you willing to Fight With him?

3)How many years are you willing Allow Yourself to Waste Your Time on someone Not Worthy of Your Love ?


Here is a Scenario to help you " Get over it and Move Forward "

You see a Dog, Cat, Bunny, Turtle, Bird, Monkey, Dolphin, Your Choice.

It is malnourished, under fed, left alone, kicked out of the way, fed only when it is " deemed" by the Owner, to be fed Attention and Love.

That animals still goes back or stays, just craving the attention, the pat on the head.
The .. even a Glimpse of the Owner, saying , "Good, Sit, Stay " or I'll be Back soon. Trust me , I'll be back, I'll take care of you . That animal will of course TRUST and PROTECT and SERVE, the one who they think Loves them , or Provides for Them.

And then they feel Neglected, Unloved, when they are not given the " Love and Care" that was Promised. that they Used to get. Cats Bite, Dogs Bite, Snakes Bite, Birds Bite. The reason they Bite, is because they Hurt or you are hurting them, or they have been Hurt.

With Animals and Yes Humans are Animals..

Eventually you/ they either turn on their "Owners" or they Run Away or they just Die from Neglect or Broken Hearts .
The one's who Stand up or turn against to " Protect themselves " are usually Neglected or Left to find another that will be willing to Be With them and For them.

Others will just Mysteriously, Disappear, Move on and Be... Until..

hmm , wonder what happened to the First " Family " I Loved , or " I sure Miss that way I was treated before they moved ".

Meaning that You are one of those Animals. Albeit the Human Animal is the " Highest Form " We are still able to Abuse, Neglect, Harm and even just "Cage " Others .
But we are also the ones who can Save, Cherish, Love, be Dedicated, Spend " Love/Forever With ", Honor our Words with Actions.

It is Time for You to Decide..
Are you a Rescue Animal, Can You Rescue yourself, Can you Rescue Others ?
And Just Who is being Cheated here ?

I think you know the Answer to that..

I'm not big on the " PETA" thing, but I know when they, make a bit of Sense.

Then again, Carrot Top & Road Kill have feeling too . Lol , That was said with Humor. You will get the Drift .

Wow, thank you! That's a very interesting and original way of putting it. As long as I don't allow myself to fall back into his trap, I think I can get over this. Or, at least, I hope I do so I won't be miserable anymore.