Oh if you're not happy than yea you gotta get outta there. Maybe I read it wrong, but like I said, if you can't do it now, you probably won't he able to. He can't expect you to lie to yourself, and you can't expect him to wait for you to be ok with it. All I'm saying is give people a fair chance, don't hold things they can't control against them. we can all read these posts and give our opinions until were blue in the face, but you're the one with this tough decision to make and it definitiy sucks. But you know yourself better than every. You know what you want and what you're capable of.

My situation is unique, I put my girlfriend through so much BS that I ended up falling for her because she put up with it lol I never thought I would be with her, let alone live with her. But I guess the situation grew on me.

Moving out doesn't have to end your relationship but it will strain the relationship. All that means is your going to have to show home even more, that is if you're truly interested of course. But like I and the others have said, just follow your heart. You're young, so as they say, do you. I definitly don't blame you for not being in a rush to grow up. Who is.