Thread: Do women get turned off by younger men?

Originally Posted by A Normal Guy

stephreneowns thanks thats exactly the kind of advice I wanted to hear, Ravsoma lets just cut everything out except the dating a younger guy thing, it doesn't matter if the person is mature or not, if a guy was perfect in every way (I'm not saying I am though) but you found out he was a few years younger than you would you be ok with it.

"Some people just have to accept the fact that they won't be loved and appreciated by everyone."

I don't get why you said this, it has nothing to do with the topic at hand and makes you sound like a very bitter person.

It has everything to do with the topic. You feel rejected because you felt as though you were good for this girl. She was fine with you until you told her your age and now you're questioning if your age is a factor in whether or not you'll have a decent relationship.

Every woman has a different taste than the other. Just because one doesn't like you doens't mean the next one won't either. This girl used to like you and thought you were a nice person until you told her your age. Accept it and move on. Not everyone has to like you because you're "mature" and get along with them for the time being.

And an answer to your question: I would not date him if he was younger than me. Period.

Said with all the love in my bitter heart.

Originally Posted by A Normal Guy

Some people need to lose weight when their avatar picture on a forum looks fat even though it only shows half their face.

If it shouldn't be posted why post it at all. I didn't come here for you to judge my profile picture and I don't give a **** what you think about me. My comment was a general statement and you just made a personal attack on me.

Learn some manners.

Originally Posted by Ravsoma

It has everything to do with the topic. You feel rejected because you felt as though you were good for this girl. She was fine with you until you told her your age and now you're questioning if your age is a factor in whether or not you'll have a decent relationship.

Every woman has a different taste than the other. Just because one doesn't like you doens't mean the next one won't either. This girl used to like you and thought you were a nice person until you told her your age. Accept it and move on. Not everyone has to like you because you're "mature" and get along with them for the time being.

And an answer to your question: I would not date him if he was younger than me. Period.

Said with all the love in my bitter heart.

She didn't reject me yet the reason I made this thread was so that I could get some insight into whether women were automatically turned off by a younger guy. Judging from the responses I won't go for it and have learned something.

" And an answer to your question: I would not date him if he was younger than me. Period." this is all you had to say.

Originally Posted by A Normal Guy

She didn't reject me yet the reason I made this thread was so that I could get some insight into whether women were automatically turned off by a younger guy. Judging from the responses I won't go for it and have learned something.

" And an answer to your question: I would not date him if he was younger than me. Period." this is all you had to say.

Excuse me for elaborating for you. Next time I'll keep my sentences short and to the point. Don't wanna put you into overload.

Originally Posted by Ravsoma

If it shouldn't be posted why post it at all. I didn't come here for you to judge my profile picture and I don't give a **** what you think about me. My comment was a general statement and you just made a personal attack on me.

Learn some manners.

I made an example to show what kind of things people shouldn't say in their posts. What I said was not constructive and I clearly stated that it was an example. I'm done with this thread so I'm not going to post anymore or look at what people responded, if you say anything else I'm not going to read it because it will probably be some hostile bitter rebuttal.

Originally Posted by A Normal Guy

I made an example to show what kind of things people shouldn't say in their posts. What I said was not constructive and I clearly stated that it was an example. I'm done with this thread so I'm not going to post anymore or look at what people responded, if you say anything else I'm not going to read it because it will probably be some hostile bitter rebuttal.

An example that wasn't needed. What I said pertained to the topic at hand. You were just trying to start a fight, which did not work. Be nice, sweetie, okay?

Also, I'm not fat. I have a condition where my face is puffier than normal. I would usually go to my doctor for that, but I haven't had a chance to go see them. Understand the whole situation before you make an ignorant assumption. It can save you and other people a lot of time. Have a good day.

You both need to calm down and get a grip. This is an advice discussion forum, not dualing grounds. Speak your opinions about the situation without being hateful to each other. It's not the end of the world if you don't agree with each other.

"Ravsoma", you have been warned before about your negative attitude. Don't let me see you being rude again. Even if it is in response to someone being extremely hateful to you. If you are having an issue with someone, as I told you before, let me know. Do not fight in the forums. This is your last warning.

"A Normal Guy", as this is your first warning, let me remind you that we do not allow any sort of rude behavior or inappropriate language. Do not say things that attack a person's character or you will be banned. Even if it was a theoretical statement.

I normally keep warnings between myself and the member, but I feel that everyone here needs to be reminded about what is appropriate. Please keep it civil people.

~Jessica

Okay let me say two things, ravsoma, you obviously aren't very old or you wouldn't be fueling the fire with a 16 year old boy. You need to be a little more mature about the way you respond. Secondly, I am currently in a relationship and the guy is younger than me. We have been together for almost a year, and it is amazing. He has treated me with more respect and dignity than any other guy I have ever dated. I think that a lot of it has to do with the kind of person that you present yourself to be. Dont come off acting like someone you are not. Be yourself.