Naked pictures??

LeanaBrook · 08-14-2007, 12:32 PM

I need some feedback here. I need to know if my feelings are completely out of line before I really lay into my boyfriend. The other day while I was working behind the bar I saw that my bf was sitting at a table with his friend and his friends new girlfriend. Being that this friend of his just got out of a really bad relationship I figured he was sitting there getting to know her a little better. Come to find out she was drunk off her a*$ and was showing them NAKED PHOTOS of herself on her phone.

WTH!!?My first reaction is to hunt her or his friend down to give them a peice of my mind or more. But really who I should be mad at is him!! My boyfriend!! He didnt have to look at them. I overheard him bragging to another friend yesterday that there were several (thats how I found out too)!!! So immature and such trash. Why do I feel like that is a total lack of respect for me and our relationship?? I didnt want to flip out then, when I found out, because 1... his friends were there and 2... I dont want him to feel he needs to watch what he says around me. Would any of you get mad about this? Or should I chalk this up to just another interesting story working at a bar??!

lauren2007 · 08-14-2007, 03:51 PM

i wud go mad if it was my bf, i wuda had a ryt go at him then n there n slapped her. ask him about it n if he says ya being ****** jus say wat wud u feel lyk if your mate was showing me naked pics of him. bet e wudnt b happy! its always the same in it..lads think they can do out n wen a lass does the same thing they go off it

**Ravsoma** · 08-14-2007, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by lauren2007

i wud go mad if it was my bf, i wuda had a ryt go at him then n there n slapped her. ask him about it n if he says ya being ****** jus say wat wud u feel lyk if your mate was showing me naked pics of him. bet e wudnt b happy! its always the same in it..lads think they can do out n wen a lass does the same thing they go off it

...-reads that over again-... I think I got that. It's somewhat hard to interpret...

Slapping someone doesn't solve the problem.

That'll only start a fight and things like this need to be settled peacefully. The best thing to do is sit your boyfriend aside and just ask him why he would do that. If he can't give you a clear answer or even a sincere apology, give him an ultimatum.

**soldatka** · 08-23-2007, 01:39 PM

Yep, he sounds immature. But they're just nakie pictures, she was being drunk and silly and men ALWAYS want to look. If it was my BF I'd give him a ticking off and leave it at that. It's not like there was something physical going on, just some pics of T&A by the sound of it.

Mandie Dawn · 08-24-2007, 02:41 PM

i don?t think you should go nuts at your boy, it?s like a car accident no one WANTS to look but you can?t help it, curiosity gets the better of you and you look, same thing with photo?s, seeing a naked chick is a nice thing for a guy, but that?s all it is!

steph* · 08-24-2007, 02:58 PM

seriously I think you should talk to him and tell him that wasn't right of him to do! i mean that is very disrespectful! Trust me if you dont let him know that it hurt you what are the odds of him doing it again?? My boyfriend told me that if I were to get mad at him and I dont let him know or let it slide he said that he would just think he didn't do anything wrong. I dont think he would like that at all if you did it! just have a good talk with him I hope he is mature enough to apologize at least! well good luck!

08-14-2007, 12:32 PM	#1
LeanaBrook Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 7	Naked pictures?? I need some feedback here. I need to know if my feelings are completely out of line before I really lay into my boyfriend. The other day while I was working behind the bar I saw that my bf was sitting at a table with his friend and his friends new girlfriend. Being that this friend of his just got out of a really bad relationship I figured he was sitting there getting to know her a little better. Come to find out she was drunk off her a$ and was showing them NAKED PHOTOS of herself on her phone. WTH!!?My first reaction is to hunt her or his friend down to give them a peice of my mind or more. But really who I should be mad at is him!! My boyfriend!! He didnt have to look at them. I overheard him bragging to another friend yesterday that there were several (thats how I found out too)!!! So immature and such trash. Why do I feel like that is a total lack of respect for me and our relationship?? I didnt want to flip out then, when I found out, because 1... his friends were there and 2... I dont want him to feel he needs to watch what he says around me. Would any of you get mad about this? Or should I chalk this up to just another interesting story working at a bar??! Last edited by LeanaBrook; 08-14-2007 at 12:36 PM.*

08-24-2007, 02:58 PM	#6
steph* VIP Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 63	seriously I think you should talk to him and tell him that wasn't right of him to do! i mean that is very disrespectful! Trust me if you dont let him know that it hurt you what are the odds of him doing it again?? My boyfriend told me that if I were to get mad at him and I dont let him know or let it slide he said that he would just think he didn't do anything wrong. I dont think he would like that at all if you did it! just have a good talk with him I hope he is mature enough to apologize at least! well good luck! __________________ Stephanie

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08-14-2007, 03:51 PM	#2
lauren2007 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: uk Posts: 13	i wud go mad if it was my bf, i wuda had a ryt go at him then n there n slapped her. ask him about it n if he says ya being ****** jus say wat wud u feel lyk if your mate was showing me naked pics of him. bet e wudnt b happy! its always the same in it..lads think they can do out n wen a lass does the same thing they go off it

08-23-2007, 01:39 PM	#4
soldatka VIP Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 73	Yep, he sounds immature. But they're just nakie pictures, she was being drunk and silly and men ALWAYS want to look. If it was my BF I'd give him a ticking off and leave it at that. It's not like there was something physical going on, just some pics of T&A by the sound of it.

08-24-2007, 02:41 PM	#5
Mandie Dawn Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 14	i don?t think you should go nuts at your boy, it?s like a car accident no one WANTS to look but you can?t help it, curiosity gets the better of you and you look, same thing with photo?s, seeing a naked chick is a nice thing for a guy, but that?s all it is!