dogsrule

I met this guy online at one of the dating sites. He is really nice, hunky and just my type. We talk alot on line and are planning on meeting this Sunday. Our Conversations started out nice but not we are into sex online with each other instant messanger ( we both have webcams) I want this to work out, he told me he is not looking for a relationship, just to meet people but if we get along good, he don't mind dating after we get to know each other ( one on one dating ) I really dig him and want him to like me. He is on multiple sites which he is honest about. He im's me every 2-3 days, we talk 2 hours or so. I told him he is a player as it alwasy goes to flirting and sex.. Do you think he likes me? Its so hard to tell. Advice Please.

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Little

If your online conversations degenerated so quickly into sexual conversations, your "acquaintanceship" (as this is ALL he is offering you; he is showing no inclination to commitment) will as well. He might like you a lot, or he might not respect you one bit, but either way, you won't be dragging a relationship out of this type of guy.

*~SimplyMe~*

In all honesty it sounds like he is only wanting sex from you. I have heard many stoires of online dating and please please please becareful and use your judgement.

kaylar

My friend Georgia met Andre on Skype. They talked,
used web cams, he came to Ja then she went to
Italy where he lives...
sigh
it's true love...

dogsrule

Well this Sunday I meet him. He has called me on the phone, seems excited to see me, but will see. I am trying to protect myself from getting hurt by saying he is a player, a jerk but then he calls me, talks to me about his dad, his son and just talks. I have not dated in 20 years so this is freaking me out. Does he/don't he.. ****.. Dating sucks.

Thanks everyone.. I hope its a good thing. I bought a new lacy bra and new outfit just in case he does like me and want to see me more. I am not going to push or ask him. Just enjoy the day and see what happens.

Gosh I love this website, so nice to talk to people.

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well I called him Saturday night to see if we were meeting up. He said he didnt know what to do as his dad was in the hospital but would stay home and support his mom. He has a low heart beat. I believe him but disappointed. He asked me for a rain check. I ended up waking up this morning ( Sunday) with a killer cold so it would of not been much fun anyway. **** I was so looking forward to meeting him. I sent him a cute email this morning with a couple on a bike and told him this was his official raincheck.

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well I called him to see if we were going out this Sunday 9-9-07.. he said he had to work. Well I am not going to call him anymore. I guess he's not interested.. At least he will think I am not after I quit writing. I have a date with another guy I am meeting for the first time up in the town of this other guy I like. We are going to meet at Cousins resturant so very public. I don't understand why we want who we cannot have. Sucks!!!

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Little

I'm glad you're moving on and being reasonable It's nice to hear of somebody with their head on straight.
Good luck

kaylar

On many of the dating sites, people invent characters
they portray. So Pete, who offers himself as 44 and
divorced is actually 64 and married. He just wants
to play ... a Role Playing Game, where he is 44 and
gorgeous, instead of 64 and looking every minute of
it.

A dear friend named Lisa was a paraplegic, and had
this 'Trinity' type persona on line. She met Bart and
he fell in love with her, and she admited the truth to
him when he asked to meet her.

it was open to her to put him off, 'my mother is sick',
or 'I have to go to Baltimore', or whatever excuse to
maintain her 'Trinity' (Matrix) identity, but Lisa is an
honest person.

Your hunk is probably ten years older than he claims,
the photos prob belong to someone else.

That's the danger of on line dating.

Laugh it off, and move on.

dogsrule

thanks for the comments. I did go on my date to the Dalles, the first guy, Dave was ok, no sparks for me.. I wanted the 2nd guy. I called him, he didnt answer and then he texted me saying he was not in the mood, depressed, whatever. I went home and emailed him saying how could he, why did he lead me on for what? To play games? Why? I told him I liked him and wished he would be considerate with peoples feelings. What a f... jerk. I also told him I wished I f..ke.. him so I could use him as he used me.. Just for online fun I guess he was after.. I thought he was really liking me , wanted to get togheter, we talk on the phone.. just dont make sense..

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