dating married man

adallas · 12-15-2007, 07:43 AM

I have been dating this married man for two years we just had a baby together every six months he is back and forth between me and his wife she harasses me he tells me that he does not have the money to get a divorce I just want to know how to get rid of him but still let him have realtionship with our baby or just deal with him through a lawyer because everytime I try to keep things profesional he use that to come back into my life

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**metalbudderfly** · 12-19-2007, 09:40 AM

wow adallas,
well i have a little experience with dealing with this type of situation. i have 3 kids with 2 different fathers and one of them i have to deal with through the state and the other i don't have any problems with. well i don't know what steps you have taken to get rid of this man but all i can say is try to explain to him that you do not want him in your life any more but you can work out a visitation and child support plan with him. be strong and stand behind your decisions and if he wants to be unadult about this then by all means you should seek some kind of legal counsel. and with the wife that is harassing you explain to him or her that the harrasment needs to stop or legal action will take place. i wouldn't even deal with the wife at all this is between you and this man. i'm sorry to hear you are going through this. i know it's tough. hang in there and just enjoy your baby and worry about you and your baby's well being.

12-15-2007, 07:43 AM	#1
adallas Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 3	dating married man I have been dating this married man for two years we just had a baby together every six months he is back and forth between me and his wife she harasses me he tells me that he does not have the money to get a divorce I just want to know how to get rid of him but still let him have realtionship with our baby or just deal with him through a lawyer because everytime I try to keep things profesional he use that to come back into my life Guests, Become a Member to remove this ad! Last edited by adallas; 12-15-2007 at 07:43 AM. Reason: need advice

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12-19-2007, 09:40 AM	#2
metalbudderfly Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: utah Posts: 210	wow adallas, well i have a little experience with dealing with this type of situation. i have 3 kids with 2 different fathers and one of them i have to deal with through the state and the other i don't have any problems with. well i don't know what steps you have taken to get rid of this man but all i can say is try to explain to him that you do not want him in your life any more but you can work out a visitation and child support plan with him. be strong and stand behind your decisions and if he wants to be unadult about this then by all means you should seek some kind of legal counsel. and with the wife that is harassing you explain to him or her that the harrasment needs to stop or legal action will take place. i wouldn't even deal with the wife at all this is between you and this man. i'm sorry to hear you are going through this. i know it's tough. hang in there and just enjoy your baby and worry about you and your baby's well being.