Have not heard from her.???

**Drewstraws** · 12-25-2007, 10:56 PM

Hi Ladies,
I met a woman a week ago and we had a date on Sunday night. It went very good and we have a lot in common. I told her I would call her the next day and she made it clear when to reach her (with the holidays and all). I called for the next few days with no response. I am a little old fashioned and not as casual as most when it comes to dating. The first night we met, she actually got in between me and a woman I was chatting with to try to move in and get her self noticed. All in all she was quite aggressive. She really softened up on the date, I saw another side of her and feelings started to grow for her. I know it was only one date but we spent 3 hours getting to know each other when we met and 6 more on the date. The last few nights have been lonely not knowing what happened. As hard as it may be, I can accept that we may not have a future together. I just wish we could talk about it. Also we may not be lovers but I could see being her friend. (me, early 40's man, average to maybe a little less than average dating experience) Please help me.
Thanks. Love you.

**sourpuss** · 12-25-2007, 11:46 PM

Give her some time. With the holidays and family and all, people's schedules get all mixed up. Call her one more time at the end of the week, if she doesn't call back (be sure to leave your number, she may have lost it) then I would chalk it up to a date that didn't turn in to anything more.

**Little** · 12-26-2007, 12:03 AM

It's hard to "just be patient," regardless if that's the bottom line.
Get back out to whatever social places you go. Be with friends. Don't give this situation a single unnecessary thought.
It could be that she's genuinely tied up with holidays, or that she just isn't interested ... equally valid.
So what's best for you is probably distraction.

**Drewstraws** · 01-02-2008, 07:01 PM

Sorry for getting back so late. She called. Not the best conversation though. Friends have seen her around and say she might be a game player or mixed up. I really like her though. I just don't want to get hurt. I have to learn to be more easy going. I am not sure what will happen but I am somewhat prepared for a possible deadend.
Love ya Ladies. Happy New Year.

12-25-2007, 10:56 PM	#1
Drewstraws VIP Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 21	Have not heard from her.??? Hi Ladies, I met a woman a week ago and we had a date on Sunday night. It went very good and we have a lot in common. I told her I would call her the next day and she made it clear when to reach her (with the holidays and all). I called for the next few days with no response. I am a little old fashioned and not as casual as most when it comes to dating. The first night we met, she actually got in between me and a woman I was chatting with to try to move in and get her self noticed. All in all she was quite aggressive. She really softened up on the date, I saw another side of her and feelings started to grow for her. I know it was only one date but we spent 3 hours getting to know each other when we met and 6 more on the date. The last few nights have been lonely not knowing what happened. As hard as it may be, I can accept that we may not have a future together. I just wish we could talk about it. Also we may not be lovers but I could see being her friend. (me, early 40's man, average to maybe a little less than average dating experience) Please help me. Thanks. Love you.

01-02-2008, 07:01 PM	#4
Drewstraws VIP Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 21	she called Sorry for getting back so late. She called. Not the best conversation though. Friends have seen her around and say she might be a game player or mixed up. I really like her though. I just don't want to get hurt. I have to learn to be more easy going. I am not sure what will happen but I am somewhat prepared for a possible deadend. Love ya Ladies. Happy New Year.

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12-25-2007, 11:46 PM	#2
sourpuss WH Moderator Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Montana Posts: 1,367	Give her some time. With the holidays and family and all, people's schedules get all mixed up. Call her one more time at the end of the week, if she doesn't call back (be sure to leave your number, she may have lost it) then I would chalk it up to a date that didn't turn in to anything more.

12-26-2007, 12:03 AM	#3
Little WH Junior Administrator Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: whjuniorad[at]hotmail[dot]com Posts: 1,559 Blog Entries: 4	It's hard to "just be patient," regardless if that's the bottom line. Get back out to whatever social places you go. Be with friends. Don't give this situation a single unnecessary thought. It could be that she's genuinely tied up with holidays, or that she just isn't interested ... equally valid. So what's best for you is probably distraction.