Thread: cant tell what to do

I recently had a break up with my man of over two years. he has been calling me almost every day since the break up. i told him i didnt mind being friends with him. and being the friend that i am he told me about his recent promotion at his job so i offered to pick him up some dress clothes using my disscount that i get at my job as long as he could pay me back i aslo told him that he didnt have to pay me for everything some can be a gift for his birthday. anyways getting to my point here he tells me i'm being to nice to him and why cant i be mean to him. he says im not making this break up easy for him. he told me the other night that it was upsetting to him that i didnt seem upset over the break up. i had told him i was upset but i was trying not to be a cry baby around him. from what is sounds like to me is that he wants to get back together but when i call he seems like he doesnt want to talk but if up there with him he's a chatter box. my question is does he want to get back together or am i being crazy

hey guys me again, with a new issuse. Last firday and Sunday (both days went about the same) i went up to my boyfriends house, i brought him lunch and something nice for him. We had a good time while i was there up until about and hour or so before i left we got into a bit of a fight nothing major just a little flight (mainly my fault). I said i was sorry and i didnt know what was my issuse just was getting mad easyly on those days. Well the last four days he hasnt wanted to talk to me and i have been trying to give him space. He came up yesterday, because he had a meeting near my house, and we went to lunch (it was nice) and went and got him a new phone, but when we left he said bye and gave me a side hug (no kiss). And that really hurt me feelings. What i wanted to get advice from anyone is that should i sit him down and ask him what is his deal, and why he hasnt talked to me, or should i wait for him to come to me?