How Do I Move On?

crystal6033 · 02-22-2008, 11:34 PM

Well, Im in LOVE with my Ex and we have been on and off since feb15 of last year..He says he Loves me and still has feelings for me..But the last time we broke it off was Jan 2nd and it ws because I found out he was cheating on me..I dnt like it when he lies to me and thats all he does and he leaves me no choice but to leave him alone..He cheats on me everytime but its hard to let him go when I LOVE HIM SOOOO MUCH!! I tried to give him a chance cause he wnted to take me out for Valentines but do u kno he texted HAPPY VALENTINES early like 7 that morning and I havent heard from him since to this day I still havent heard from him..I need help on leaving him alone cause he always come back and I always give in n give him another chance knowing I dnt trust him and kno he gon cheat..

02-23-2008, 05:37 PM

Let's look at it a different way.
You've met a perfectly charming
lovable scoundrel.

Being seriously involved with a
lovable scoundrel is ridiculous.

Having a fling with him, having
a casual relationship, having
a friendship is great.

Lots of fun.

If you can detach and love him at
a distance, not as your boyfriend,
husband, one and only, but as a
lovable scoundrel who comes and
goes, then fine.

You can have other men in your life
and have your ex around for laughs.

Don't get serious, cause he's not.
No matter what he says or promises
his always going to be a lovable
scoundrel.

**dgirl07** · 02-27-2008, 09:32 AM

I absolutely agree with kaylar.

He isn't going to change. And yes you may very well love this guy, but it sounds to me like you would be better off without him.

Think about is like this. You said its been on and off for over a year, and it might be good when its on, but you have to admit that everytime its off it hurts. Wouldn't be easier to have one big hurt right now and work towards getting past him, rather than feeling the pain over and over again each time he hurts you.

Ignore him if he comes crawling back. Take what energy you would have been putting into this relationship and put it into making youself happy until Mr. Right comes along.

It'll get easier I promise

02-22-2008, 11:34 PM	#1
crystal6033 Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 3	How Do I Move On? Well, Im in LOVE with my Ex and we have been on and off since feb15 of last year..He says he Loves me and still has feelings for me..But the last time we broke it off was Jan 2nd and it ws because I found out he was cheating on me..I dnt like it when he lies to me and thats all he does and he leaves me no choice but to leave him alone..He cheats on me everytime but its hard to let him go when I LOVE HIM SOOOO MUCH!! I tried to give him a chance cause he wnted to take me out for Valentines but do u kno he texted HAPPY VALENTINES early like 7 that morning and I havent heard from him since to this day I still havent heard from him..I need help on leaving him alone cause he always come back and I always give in n give him another chance knowing I dnt trust him and kno he gon cheat..

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02-23-2008, 05:37 PM	#2
kaylar Guest Posts: n/a	Let's look at it a different way. You've met a perfectly charming lovable scoundrel. Being seriously involved with a lovable scoundrel is ridiculous. Having a fling with him, having a casual relationship, having a friendship is great. Lots of fun. If you can detach and love him at a distance, not as your boyfriend, husband, one and only, but as a lovable scoundrel who comes and goes, then fine. You can have other men in your life and have your ex around for laughs. Don't get serious, cause he's not. No matter what he says or promises his always going to be a lovable scoundrel.

02-27-2008, 09:32 AM	#3
dgirl07 VIP Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 50	I absolutely agree with kaylar. He isn't going to change. And yes you may very well love this guy, but it sounds to me like you would be better off without him. Think about is like this. You said its been on and off for over a year, and it might be good when its on, but you have to admit that everytime its off it hurts. Wouldn't be easier to have one big hurt right now and work towards getting past him, rather than feeling the pain over and over again each time he hurts you. Ignore him if he comes crawling back. Take what energy you would have been putting into this relationship and put it into making youself happy until Mr. Right comes along. It'll get easier I promise