Angelic babe, from the perspective of a guy who goes out and socialises atleast 3 nights a week at clubs, bars etc, there some a couple of things that REALLY make the difference when it comes to attracting guys. One of which you already mentioned, dressing to look sexy but not slutty.

I'll put some of the important points in dot point form (makes it easier to read)

- GREAT eyecontact. When you see a guy, prolonged eye contact REALLY gets a guy curious (although this is a common female technique so I'm sure you know it.)

- Nice smile. Smile when you make eye contact. MOST guys aren't very interpreting your little shows of interest and won't understand what prolonged eye-contact can potentially mean. Smiling makes it that much more obvious to the average guy.

- Be FUN and Playful. If the conversation seems to be heading towards the boring "so what are you studying?" or "what school did you go to." then change the topic to something more unique and interesting. This can be something strange that happened to you today, a crazy thought OR simple flirting. REMEMBER you can't bore somone into feeling attracted to you. So while guys are initially curious about you from your body-language and looks, if you can't hold a conversation, then most guys will just give up and go looking for more interesting people.

- if he compliments you or does something nice for you then show him some respect. There is nothing more loved by us than when girls show them admiration and respect. So for instance he says, "YOU ARE CRAZY LIKE ME! I like that about you." then you can respond with a similar show of interest. "Are you thinking what I'm thinking B1? Crazy adventure! "

- Also playing hard to get TO AN EXTENT. Too little and high value guys will lose interest. To much and guys will give up because they can always find a lovely girl who aren't just teases. Just right and guys will go insane.

Enjoy

PS. My mum warned me about girls like you, with your "techniques" to lure guys. Not so "angelic" after all. I can't even talk to you anymore!

Rapid made a good point we've forgot: what kind of social do you do. I never really go out to bars & clubs, and I think a woman hitting on all those points would turn me off because she would seem like she's trying too hard for me to trust...it might be like the flashing light on the baggage carrousel at the airport, you know? Depends what kind of guy you want I guess.

So to the above I'd add the impossible "do it while not seeming to care too much" ! Maybe part of that is not trying too hard to hold up a conversation that isn't going anywhere. It's 50-50, the boy should be saying or trying to say something interesting too, after all.

Ted

Here, here Ted, it does sound a tad One way does it not?

If his conversations are non. and all he is doing is conversing with me, trying to "find out all about me, " to anayse me? makes it pretty hard to judge don't you think?

I know i have, well he can't converse.. What is his judgement? based only on his questions?

What a waste of communication i feel.

CW

i realized that my man loves me best when i a, actually naked, but when it comes to being clothed, he is turned on by seeing me in a uniform. have you tried wearing sexy costumes? or you two havent reached that point yet?

what turns guys on most has to be when girls have confidence! and also you may think they like it when you are easy, but thats not true--those are usually the girls they dont take seriously!

oh rapid thanks for the great advice too!!

Stay sweet and thoughtful; avoid being a nagger (we boys hate it!) =)

this is going to sound a bit funny, at least to me b/c advice is easier given than taken, let alone using your own. anyway..............

best th