Thread: teacher love

I do think it's a bit strange how ferverantly we frown on men being interested in younger women... Not that I agree with it - but in America people would be complaining about sex with a sixteen year old, which in the UK is legal... And someone at secondary school can be 16 (12-16).

Then I think, is one year or six months really that much of a difference? Aren't these all just arbitrary lines we draw since we need some sort of a cut off point?

I had a kiss and a grope with a fourteen year old once - I'm not at all proud of it - in fact it disturbed me for a while, I was totally drunk and she was all over me but I should've known better, I was six years older at the time. Legally, I suppose, I commited statutory indecent assault. Did I deserve to go to jail? I wouldn't have said so.

I agree with Little, it is abuse. Even if you were older, the fact that he is your teacher and you are his student is what's wrong. It's not allowed.
If you want to catch him out then maybe tell your best friend when you'll be meeting and she/he can turn up, then it won't be just your word against his. Or when you're staying behind at school to be with him, tell your mum to pick you up earlier..

Careful. Anonymous boards are not really anonymous - you can be tracked. If the "fantasy" you posted had been real you would have just admitted to statutory rape (in most states). I doubt anyone would prosecute, but probably not a great idea to say it anyway.

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

I do think it's a bit strange how ferverantly we frown on men being interested in younger women... Not that I agree with it - but in America people would be complaining about sex with a sixteen year old, which in the UK is legal... And someone at secondary school can be 16 (12-16).

Then I think, is one year or six months really that much of a difference? Aren't these all just arbitrary lines we draw since we need some sort of a cut off point?

I had a kiss and a grope with a fourteen year old once - I'm not at all proud of it - in fact it disturbed me for a while, I was totally drunk and she was all over me but I should've known better, I was six years older at the time. Legally, I suppose, I commited statutory indecent assault. Did I deserve to go to jail? I wouldn't have said so.

Well, obviously it was hypothetical, but if it wasn't then there's still no way anything could come of it. I believe the UK police would have to request the details from this site or the ISP, something which is basically never done, about something incredibly minor (any UK policeman would just laugh) that happened years ago, without evidence.

I'd like to think that their attention would be better spent elsewhere...