Thread: teacher love

Originally Posted by sad

ive recently fell inlove with my teacher and he told me he felt the same.. he keeps me behind school for sex filled detentions?! i know its wrong byt i love him

im 15

Hi sad.

It is okay for you to pose this question and i suspect you have a question but haven't actually stated one.

When i was at school i fell in love with my teacher as well, drama teacher.

I would have been about your age.

I went to school hiding my make up as i wasn't allowed to wear any and then try my hardest to get it of before i got home, but my Mother always spotted the left over mascara and thought i was just being girly.

It drove me mad.

Each day i couldn't wait to be in that class. And, i received special attention, and lots of eye contact, and he instigated it.

We talked about it, and i was a Virgin. Having said that to him, he refused and i'm grateful for that part now, but i was also sexually charged i guess and wanted to learn, still do.

After i finished school, and was of age, he changed his total pattern, somehow he kept letting me know what he did, ie) where he played squash for instance. He stated that he would not take my virginity but if someone else did to " knock on his door".

I was in total love or so i thought.

I went there once, and that is when i learnt that he had a fiancee. She was beautiful and she said hello to me, i kind of felt that she knew his antics as she smiled as well.

I am glad therefore, that i saw that.

I don't know what to say to you other than truly, please report him.

I wish i did to this day. If he was different and took me due to being young and nieve, it would be a crime.

But he still had me wanting him to be with him and marry him because, well i was so young.

And, that to is a crime.

Please, think about this carefully very carefully and do the right thing because next year it will be another girl just like you....

She may be scared for life and you may just do some good for someone else.

I know it's hard, as you love him but you will learn to love another as well...

Sorry, truly but this is the only explanation i can offer you as it could have happened to me, but i also remember the "love" bit.

Look after yourself and you mentioned on another thread that you are only bleeding for a week.

I am not sure if you therefore have been using a condom, or are on the pill, but if neither, you must not have sex with this man anyway...

But please see that you are not alone and a lot of women i am sure had crushes on their teachers, it's more than normal in that regard, as they are teaching and you like their authority and wisdom....

Have a think....

CW