Thread: confused... please help.

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

Well, sure, depending on how it's done I don't like straight up "I know you'd want to sleep with me so all I have to do is ask"... But I think nothing is wrong with a girl getting a guy a drink, or asking what he's doing later on etc etc.

I agree, first impressions count... If you give out the wrong one by suggestions pertaining to sex, then your sending a clear message...

And, i agree, being assertive, confident is an asset and a welcoming trait of a female to a man...

But, i would show confidence, assertiveness and do, in the content that you've written, but i wouldn't ask him out on a date.

Again, with your thoughts, if the threader for-instance went to see him play, and they were chatting away, laughing and she suggested, i feel like a drink, so do you want to go somewhere else, for-instance, then i see no harm in that, if he wasn't making a suggestion.. It's harmless, just a question and she's opened it with something she wants to do, so not being direct but ensuring the "date" continues or has a chance to become one.

CW