Initially when looking at the title of the post I thought men definately. But after reading the posts I'm not so sure.

I am a women and have never cheated and as far as I know never been cheated on. I think it is about morals but also about how well intact someones self esteem is. If you need to boost your seldf esteem you may be more open to cheating. Just a thought.

tt

Talk_time: I'd never thought about it that way, but the low self-esteem issue might be very important. Suggests that treating your spouse with respect and building their esteem might be a better defense against cheating than trying to check up on them.

I think women cheat more has someone said earlier they have more opportunity than men. Women are constantly hit on by men, and not every man has the courage to ask women out randomly like some casanovas plus their are more women than men.

Whether its at bars, parties,or social events there always seem to be 5 guys for every girl even though there are many more women in the population not sure why that is. I am sure their are women casanovas just has their are men don juans who date like 4 people at once but the don juan types I agree get more opportunites than the average joes and most men are not don juan types hence overall women have much more opportunity to cheat.

women.....definetly. Like anon said........ist easier for women to get away with because even though its bad....women are better liars. Plus as its been mentioned, we do get many opportunities for it to happen because no matter how a woman looks, she gets hit on multiple times a day.

well I had one girlfriend cheat on me, a fiance at age 20 (who I dumped) and another fiance at age 27 (we later got married) cheat on me, but I've never been able to cheat - even though I was given the opportunity. So maybe it's women based on the formula cited above?

Hey No1.. Welcome by the way...

Are you still married?

Curious...

And I often wonder why they cheat... What type of people we are attracting into our lives and why we accept.

You dumped the first Fiance but accepted the second?

May sort of assist if you give a bit more info, that's if you feel like it.

CW

Hi there,

yes I am still married, and the situations were a little different. the first one happened after we had been engaged for quite awhile. the second happened just before we got engaged but I didnt learn about it until shortly before the wedding. so why I went on anyway is an easy guess. i was ! lol

Bet you wrote a word after I was ...... and it got sensored haha, started with S?

Well, you knew, you decided it was a long time before, and I hope you live happily ever after.

CW