ppl i nyd help on dis o ill go mad! seriously!pls do read down.i no its pretty long but i do nyd advice on this matter
well i hav started dating wit dis guy whom i really like.i had known him for 5 yrs.but it has byn 4yrs since we saw each other we cam into contact again n strted to talk this yr.we strtd talkin first through a lil problem which i wax having wit my ex boyfrend then.i called him for advice.and since then we were talking until oneday when v confessed to each other tht we had liked each other for so long.we did not get togeder right away for he wax dating sumone else, they both loved each other so much.but wax having a lil medical problem because they both were thelesemia carriers due to which they were not able to marry.anyhow they were considering on marrying when i kind of barged into there life after 5 yrs nd the guy is with me now.
the problem is dat i fyl guilty over this.like m coming in btwn them.i talked to my boyfrend abt this bt he says it wax ok.bt this heavy fyling is inside me tht is just not going.wht shud i do.he says he loves me bt i fyl like he still loves dat gal.m i barging in.shud i leave.ppl please giv me sum advice for this whole thought has strted to give me indigestion n i havent byn able to eat for three days because of this thought.m nt even able to study well because of this.i sure hope tht m nt breaking sumones heart.i mean is it ok to b with him?
m open to any comments,advice or etc

I had a really hard time reading your post because of missing letters, shortened words, and incorrect letters....it would be much easier to read if you just typed full words! Just a tip for getting more people to read, understand, and feel confident in replying to your posts.

But, assuming I correctly got the point - you feel bad for breaking up your boyfriend's old relationship, despite him telling you that he's happy to be with you.

All I can say is that you have to weigh whether you think he's telling the truth and make a choice of whether you believe him. If you believe he's being honest and is really happy to be with you over the other girl, then just stop thinking about her, because if he really wanted her, he would be with her. If you don't believe him then make the choice to end things before you get hurt. Don't stay if you're constantly anguishing about this. It's not worth it and you'll just end up making things difficult for him if you keep asking him again and again for reassurance.

Good luck.

thanx silvertae.tht helped.bt dont u think d other girl will b hurt.i m not d type that can hurt people.so it really bothers me on her side too.

Yes, of course she would be hurt. But your boyfriend made the decision to leave her to be with you. Unless you completely sabotaged their relationship by telling him lies about her, badmouthing her, etc. it's really not your fault. You said they had some problems so maybe he just felt it wasn't worth it being with her anymore and decided to go with a less complicated relationship with you. Breakups happen all the time and usually, one or both people in it end up hurting. That's just a fact of life. Don't beat yourself up. If he was willing to leave her for you, he probably would have left her eventually anyway.

I agree!!

You can be taught to speak and write in proper English at your local school. I hope this helps.

You're bold Anon. I like it.

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