Hi everyone, I need some advice...I met a GREAT guy about 2 months ago. He's a K9 cop in the Air Force. We met through friends and talked on the phone for a week before we met. We have a lot in common and really connected. I was really excited to meet him. When we met in person I felt the same. Then he told me he was going overseas for 6 months...and leaving in 2 weeks. So I only got to see him about 6 times before he left but we talked on the phone every night for 3 weeks. He's been gone for a month now and I haven't heard from him. We didn't have sex so I know he wasn't just looking for somethin before he left. He talked about us doing things together when he got back. He's been deployed twice before so he knows what to expect. He told me he would call me in the first week he was there and it's been a month now and I still haven't heard from him. I don't know if I should be worried that he's maybe hurt, just too busy to call me, or doesn't want to call me. I'm patient and stubborn, I really want him and I am willing to wait...but I'm also 20 and don't want to miss something while waiting for him. I just want everyones opinion on this to help me make up my mind.

i feel you on this id have a lot of thoughts on my mind too if i were in your place.

There was this one guy i was talking too we met online but he had gone over seas around australia and japan. We never met in person before but yet he'd always call me me and write me and send me a lot of gifts... without having met me.

But for your situation i'd say he is probably busy.. because he seems like he might be a real decent guy.

GOOD LUCK and hope he is safe and he gets in contact with you. <3

If you two met through mutual friends why dont you try asking them if hes gotten ahold of them

my roomate was dating his friend but they don't talk anymore

You really need to ask yourself how much time are oyou willing to put into the relationship. You are very young and not to put anything bad in your mind but many infidelities occur when they are away from the one they love. also ask yourself ... are you guys strong enough to overcome this situation and make it worth it in the end.
another factor that i see would be the fact that you really haven't known him for that long. SEX and a relationship are 2 very different things. If you decide to wait for him keep your eyes open. he'll probably eventually have to go overseas again (depending on his situation) ... how are you going to feel then? are you goingt o feel like you're his booty call?
Just becareful and don't rush into anything ... If things are meant to be they will jut happen.

Good luck

i think u should listen to ur heart.if it says ti wait then do.but ur doing a mistake by byn stubborn.try contacting him ur self.dnt do d mistake i did by byn stubborn.a relationship will only work if both of u puts n affort into it.goodluck dear.

You really haven't known him very long, and it doesn't sounds as if this is a "relationship."
It sounds as if you've just a had a few nice dates and some great phone convos (and thats great!) But... Did he tell you he was falling in love with you? Did he ask you to wait for him?

I agree, you are young, and unless he has given you some solid reason, you should not wait for him.

I would not worry about him not contacting you, it is probably very difficult for him to communicate with you, or anyone else for that matter, and this does not mean that he is hurt, necessarily. It also does not mean that he's lost interest.

When he comes back, he knows how to reach you. You can rekindle things then. Until that time, go enjoy your life! Maybe some other great guy will ask you out.. and you should go!

Very experienced in dating, older woman advice here (im 30 ok, not old .. guys will be MUCH more interested/attracted/intrigued by you if you are out there being your own person and enjoying your life and NOT waiting for them. This comes across as needy and desperate. Im not saying that you are, but guys are outwardly frightened of needy, desperate girls.

Try not to think about it too much and Good Luck!

This is a really old post and I don't think that the person is going to respond or even hear your comments....

Ah yes, I guess I should check the original post date.
Perhaps someone with a similar problem will come across it.
Well, now Im curious what has happened with her K9 cop since then