http://www.womens-health.com/boards/ All right Ladies- Share tips, tricks, advice, and experiences on how to spicen up that bedroom! en Fri, 20 Nov 2009 20:44:34 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.womens-health.com/boards/images/misc/rss.jpg http://www.womens-health.com/boards/ http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/20030-has-anyone-heard-deep-spot.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:16:25 GMT While trying to find a way to help my wife have vaginal orgasms, I stumbled on a thing called the Deep spot.

Has anyone heard of this? Has your man tried this on you? It sounds too good to be true.

My wife gets nothing from sexual intercourse. She likes clitoral orgasms, but gets very frustrated if she can't have one.

Thanks
BBG ]]> Sex baseball guy http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/20030-has-anyone-heard-deep-spot.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/20029-sex-deprived-help.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 18:22:40 GMT im am recently married 9 months, ive been together with husband 6 yrs. before we got married we used to have sex all the time and he would be the one to initiate ( we would take turns, it was fun!) after we got married he has been laid back, we do it at most 2 times a month. thats when he wants to, theres been a couple of months were i get nothing!! he in only 32 yrs old. and i am 26! one day desperate i decided to see if there was any Unknown #s (cheating) and what do i find... hes been using PORN!!!, on the phone and on the computer... women with big boobs!! (Mine are a B Cup) and its something i discovered hes been watching for over a year, !! And that made me feel like because i feel as i am not good enough for him. and hes not trying hard enough to please me. i dont know what to do. :confused: and when i try to talk to him he just gets mad and says its not something to discuss. is this cause for DIVORCE? how should i approach this? im am recently married 9 months, ive been together with husband 6 yrs.

before we got married we used to have sex all the time and he would be the one to initiate ( we would take turns, it was fun!) after we got married he has been laid back, we do it at most 2 times a month. thats when he wants to, theres been a couple of months were i get nothing!! he in only 32 yrs old. and i am 26!
one day desperate i decided to see if there was any Unknown #s (cheating) and what do i find... hes been using PORN!!!, on the phone and on the computer... women with big boobs!! (Mine are a B Cup) and its something i discovered hes been watching for over a year, !!
And that made me feel like because i feel as i am not good enough for him. and hes not trying hard enough to please me.
i dont know what to do. :confused: and when i try to talk to him he just gets mad and says its not something to discuss. is this cause for DIVORCE? how should i approach this? ]]> Sex desperatehousewife1983 http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/20029-sex-deprived-help.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/20026-licker.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:26:26 GMT I like to sniff and lick (edited) of women. Is it normal? I like to sniff and lick (edited) of women. Is it normal? ]]> Sex jakobnasal http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/20026-licker.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19991-so-sexies-you-happy-what-you-have.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 01:32:36 GMT Here's poll for all us who love the Sex forum! ]]> Sex Explorer44 http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19991-so-sexies-you-happy-what-you-have.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19987-man-here-cant-take-any-more.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:10:05 GMT Many of you know me from month's past. I have had issues with a wife that has zero sex drive.

We are trying to have kids... somehow my wife must expect an angel to come down and impregnate her. , I had a bilateral vericocele ligation to make me more fertile. I think we've had sex three times in 6 weeks.

For instance, today we both somehow were home from 11am until 330pm. I went down stairs and suggestively asked her if I could borrow her for a few.. that was around 11:30am. She said right after she does a little more work. Okay... at around 12:30pm I bring some dishes downstairs and she said let's go after someone comes over and picks something up (12:45pm). At 1:00pm she said that she has to finish an application. I quit trying at this point.

Now getting to the part that REALLY pisses me off. At 3:00pm I take a shower (secretly hoping she'd hop in). I know she had to leave at 3:30. At 3:20pm after I dried off, she comes into our bedroom and offers her "butt" ... that means some doggie... and that I'd have to be really quick about it. I decline. She makes some rude remark and tries to make me feel like the guilty party. That's bull if you ask me.

I've been asked to never beg so I don't. I honestly quit asking for it much at all. Any time I have gotten any

We've discussed it and she can't have the conversation without her throwing up her arms and telling me how horrible she is and that she's a terrible lover, blah blah blah........ so, that's out. Even our neighbor Stacey said to her "keep him f'd".

I always compliment her, tell her how sexxy she is, I send fun/kinky texts, I buy flowers, make fires, make dinner, buy wine, buy lingerie, offer to scratch/rub/lick/touch/tickle,.... My return, "you've got 5 minutes and you'd better hurry".

So here I am:

1. 31 year old man with a good drive.
2. 31 year old woman with none.
3. Woman will not discuss this much.

I really wish sex wasn't so darn important. ]]> Sex Swiftus http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19987-man-here-cant-take-any-more.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19986-what-do-you-feel-if-you-havent-had-sex-few-days.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:00:22 GMT ]]> I have a hard to describe feelling in groin, and can be irritable, my wife says she feels nothing (both in 40's). But she is in the stage of indifference to sex. Is this normal for females? or men> ]]> Sex MiddleAgedMan http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19986-what-do-you-feel-if-you-havent-had-sex-few-days.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19968-ladies-i-need-some-help.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 08:38:27 GMT First off let me inform you that I am a Man, But need some ladies advice. I am 21 and just got married last christmas. The reason I come to you ladies is my sex life as gone down the drain. I am understanding of my wife when she is tired and when she dosent feel good and what ever the situation may be that she says no for. But when we do have sex she gets hers and leaves me with blue balls. I enjoy giving her hers, but when it comes to the other way around, she wont even touch me most of the time and makes it seem like a chore, this has been going on since we got married and it has become a problem. when i try to talk to her about it she says thats all i ever think about. she also walks around in the nude all the time and I find her very attractive so... . she has mentioned that she likes to keep sexually frustrated because she thinks I am nicer when I am. I dont know what to do I have begun to dislike having sex because of it, not that is not good or anything its just she puts no effort into, I am so confused .. and frustrated and I dont wont to take it out on her some one please help First off let me inform you that I am a Man, But need some ladies advice. I am 21 and just got married last christmas. The reason I come to you ladies is my sex life as gone down the drain. I am understanding of my wife when she is tired and when she dosent feel good and what ever the situation may be that she says no for. But when we do have sex she gets hers and leaves me with blue balls. I enjoy giving her hers, but when it comes to the other way around, she wont even touch me most of the time and makes it seem like a chore, this has been going on since we got married and it has become a problem. when i try to talk to her about it she says thats all i ever think about. she also walks around in the nude all the time and I find her very attractive so... . she has mentioned that she likes to keep sexually frustrated because she thinks I am nicer when I am. I dont know what to do I have begun to dislike having sex because of it, not that is not good or anything its just she puts no effort into, I am so confused .. and frustrated and I dont wont to take it out on her

some one please help ]]> Sex wetzel321 http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19968-ladies-i-need-some-help.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19956-almost-orgasm-then-too-sensitive.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 01:09:11 GMT Hello, I've been with my gf for 7 months and she's only been able to have 2 orgasms. The first one was her first, then the second one was about a week after and much better. After that, we were apart for a couple of weeks, and she started taking birth control. Since then she has not been able to have another orgasm no matter what we try (her on her own, me by myself, both of us at the same time, slow, fast, hard, soft...). She doesnt get as close during just sex because I can't last long enough. She says that she gets really really close and the feeling builds and builds, but then the feeling goes away completely and she gets too sensitive to keep going. She stopped taking birth control about 1-2 months ago so I'm hoping this had something to do with it (because she really lost her sex drive and stopped getting wet). Any information or advice?! ]]> Sex iloveher http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19956-almost-orgasm-then-too-sensitive.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19954-spicey-spicey.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 01:02:46 GMT What have you guys tried to spice up your sexytime?
For example, someones thread (I cant remember who, I apologise) about catching his wife masturbating when she thought he was asleep and it turned him on.
I'll give it a go and see what the outcome is:cool:

Any more things like that worth trying? My sex life is great but has gotten a bit routiney! :confused:
Dont get me wrong he's open to a lot of stuff and has a 'try anything once' attitude but things like saucy undies, lubes and licks and little vibratey attatchments arent really his thing...whereas I love em :D ]]> Sex shweedart http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19954-spicey-spicey.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19927-sexual-attraction-another-man.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 05:06:41 GMT Okay. I'm mew to this, but I need some perspective.

I've been with my fiance 5 years. We just got engaged and moved in together about a year ago. We're both 23. I lost my virginity to him, and he's the only guy I've ever been with.

I don't think that his sex drive is as normal as it should be. We have sex a couple times a week, and I'm the one who has to initiate it. I've told him I like him to take charge and be more dominating, but he just does not do that sort of thing. This is very frusturating to me. When we are home together, he usually sits in front of his video games or the tv. He doesn't watch porn because he's too busy staring at the tv. If I didn't say anything half the time, we'd never go anywhere or do anything because he's too lazy. He's also not cheating because he's constantly with me. It's like he always wants me around, but we hardly have sex. He says he loves me, but he doesn't show it. It's very frusturating. I've even talked to him about this, and he's promised to change and be more attentive to how his action/inaction affects me, but after a week it usually goes back to how it was.

So anyway, lately, I have been feeling overwhelming attraction to another man. He is someone I encounter a few times a week through school, who I have known for a few years. He's completely unattainable; married and older than me. I have constant sexual dreams about him. I dress up when I see him, and go out of my way to make him notice me. I don't want to go through with my attraction to him, but I find it's occupying a lot of my mind. I can't picture myself ever cheating on my fiance, but at this point, I really like when other men pay attention to me.

What I want to know is, is this common? Is it common in a relationship after a while for men to just become lazy and inattentive? And could this be what I'm completely attracted to another man? I'm confused and depressed at this point. :confused: ]]> Sex emma.jane http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19927-sexual-attraction-another-man.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19924-i-found-my-bf-joint-gay-social-community-internet.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 04:14:59 GMT Anyone ?? What should i do ?? I spoke to him, and he said yes he has account there. his divorced, and he used felt lonely when his married , no sex with his ex wife for 2 years, and that what motivate him to create that account and says that he just curious !! Hmm,,, God how if he is a bisexul guy ???? Need advice Sarah:confused: Anyone ?? What should i do ??

I spoke to him, and he said yes he has account there. his divorced, and he used felt lonely when his married , no sex with his ex wife for 2 years, and that what motivate him to create that account and says that he just curious !!

Hmm,,, God how if he is a bisexul guy ????

Need advice

Sarah:confused: ]]> Sex SarahSashaDance http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19924-i-found-my-bf-joint-gay-social-community-internet.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19921-my-b-f-wants-something-little-crazy-me.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:33:04 GMT Ok so my boyfriend and me are very sexually open. And i wanted it that way since I took his virginity and he treats me wonderfully. But like today he told me he wants me to Deep Throat me. Now that isn't the problem since I did it before.

What he actually wants me to do is DT me until i throw up and keep going. He says it's like his fantasy. I am not too cool with that, but I'm the one who asked him to be sexually open so what do i do? Cause I'm really not into it, i love him so I'll do it for him but it's weird to me and i really don't enjoy gagging and throwing up unless i was having a baby

Please any suggestions ]]> Sex DomoChan http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19921-my-b-f-wants-something-little-crazy-me.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19920-erm-anal.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:09:11 GMT Hello!

Little question for ya.. Ever had anal sex?
I'm asking for a reason.. In between much-needed shaggage, my fiance and i admitted to eachother we were curious about anal sex. Once or twice he has made me jump by inserting a fingertip into my back passage, and i must admit, after i got over the initial shock and the 'what-the-frick-are-you-doing???' bit, i kind of liked it! :rolleyes:

Now i'm in two minds about whether to take it to the next step.. He's quite large and i've heard some awfully embarrassing stories.. And though the vague idea of it turns me on, i think about it seriously, like how it would actually be, what would be involved and how it might feel and i'm a bit put-out by it. But the idea really turns me on and i know my fiance would be up for it.

What do you think? What were your experiences of anal sex, guys and girls? ]]> Sex Melephant http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19920-erm-anal.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19901-painful-sex.html Tue, 17 Nov 2009 05:23:56 GMT Ooooh, i have lots of questions today!

Well.. my man is.. quite a man :) He's very well endowed and he's pretty much the only man i've ever slept with (long story) so understandably sex was rather AGONISING for the first couple of months or so, then you kinda get used to it.

But recently it's been really painful again -for both of us. Not the same pain though, for me it's more a rawness, inside and out. Before we'd just be quite sore but now it's like we've been sanded down! Yeesh..

We were fine for a few months so i don't know what happened, sometimes it feels like he's just being really sadistic with a broken bottle, it's so bad. :(

Briefly, the thought occured to me that maybe he could've cheated andd given me an STI or something but i trust him and know he wouldn't do that, even if he had the time, and obviously i know i haven't cheated.

Any ideas what the heck is going on? ]]> Sex MrsDeadCeleb http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19901-painful-sex.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19894-my-wife-masturbates-after-she-thinks-im-asleep.html Tue, 17 Nov 2009 02:12:01 GMT Ladies, I am a 36 year old happily married man and need input if anyone is willing to share. My wife and I have been together since 2001 and about a year ago I discovered that she masturbates at night after I fall asleep. She’s 30 by the way. It's a wonder I didn't find out before, but I fall asleep fast and sleep really well. However one night last year she woke me up jerking the bed. I laid there motionless and was SOOO turned on. My heart was beating 90 miles a minute and I had to watch my breathing. Now sometimes I fall asleep after a few minutes, but sometimes stay up with her during the duration because it STILL turns me on to no end. She is very shy about masturbation and has denied ever doing it without a vibrator. She says that when she does that (during sex) it rubs her raw and is why she never masturbated before. Is that even possible considering a woman’s natural lubrication? We have a GREAT sex life (every other day on average) and I ALWAYS go down on her for the first orgasm and she uses a vibrator during sex for the second. But apparently she wants more. I would never tell her I know because first I don't want to embarrass her and second I enjoy it too much just listening. Many times I even squeeze the head of my penis together on that spot over and over until I go myself. At first I was suspicious that maybe I was hearing or feeling things, but she gave it away when she jerked real hard during one ordeal, breathed really heavy, and that soft sweet wet sound of playing with herself. Our sex life has gotten even better since then and I swear every day she makes me hornier and hornier. We do ebay for a living and set our own hours. I get up between 9:30 and 10 and she sleeps in til 11:00. She says she has a hard time falling asleep, but I know better. One time I swear she was still doing it going on 4:00 in the morning! Is that possible and does it feel THAT good the 3rd 4th or 5th time? Granted we went to bed at 1:00, but that's just amazing. I would say she has on average 3-5 more after the 2 during sex. It takes her a while because she tries real hard not to breathe heavy or move much, but the goal of having an orgasm takes over. Listening to it is like heaven on earth. I’m more tired now the next day, but it’s so worth it. Ladies, if you ever want to spice up your sex life, TRUST ME, you MUST try this with your significant other. I GUARANTEE he will be turned on and want you more. Just start soft and early (so you know he’s still awake, but yet late enough so that you think he thinks you’re asleep) so that he's suspicious at first. Don’t be too obvious, yet see what happens. While everyone is different and some guys might say "uhhh, honey what are you doing?" or an even more backwards response like "how dare you," but I guarantee it's a chance worth taking, especially if your love life is faltering. You can even blame me for suggesting it and show him this paragraph for the reason you tried it in the first place. That might save you some guilt or embarrassment and then just say, sorry I thought it might work, won't try it again. But as you know, most guys are turned on when they see a woman masturbating and even more so when they think nobody is looking. I find myself now even thinking about my wife more than fantasizing about having sex with other women while I masturbate. I was just wondering how common this is and if any of you have ever done it or do it on a regular basis yourself. Thoughts? ]]> Sex Bill S http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/19894-my-wife-masturbates-after-she-thinks-im-asleep.html