Thread: Sister is suicidal & I shouldn't know

My family are moving soon, to another country, and they're going to be living in either a village or near one. I'm unsure whether to go with them or not.

My sister isn't going. My mum hasn't forced her to go because she's worried she'll be suicidal.
Fair enough, she's doing what she thinks is best for her daughter.

Her girlfriend sent me a message recently

"I know this is going to sound completely mad, and extreme... but [my sister]'s gone suicidal, she drunk some hair bleach the other day in temper, and apparently passed out on the bathroom floor.
She's going to wait until your family has moved, because she doesn't want you all in the way, she said she thinks it'd be better if she just vanished."

What can I do?
If I tell my mum, and my sister finds out we know... I'm worried that will push her to do it even sooner.
All I can think of is not moving...

She was bullied at school and she has extremely low self confidence. She's said her girlfriend is the best thing that's happened to her.
I think 'low confidence' is the right thing... well yeah they both think badly of themselves.


Her girlfriend sent me some of an aim conversation, as she is worried abut her

[sister] says:
Fair enough.

That was another thing I shouldn't have told you, isn't it?

[sister] says:
-_-''
It's annoying how I realize I shouldn't have said anything after I said it.

[girlfriend] says:
haha, sorry.

[sister] says:
It's okay, don't apologize to me. I don't deserve it.

If you asked me to do something, I'd do it.

[sister] says:
I'm sorry, I really am.
I hope to do it so no one knows, and least people get hurt.
I hope your understand my reasons?

[girlfriend] says:
yeahh.

[sister] says:
Thank you.

It's okay, I don't plan to for a while.

[girlfriend] says:
that's good.

[sister] says:
{girlfriends name}...
I don't know how to put this, but...
If you give me a reason, I won't want to go.
If you hold me close, I won't want to let go.

[sister] says:
I mean something to you?

[sister] says:
I'd prefer to talk about this in person.
It's partly why I asked to do the walk with you, like old times.

[girlfriend] says:
no.. you've said enough.

[sister] says:
You don't want me to die?

[girlfriend] says:
obviously not.

[sister] says:
You don't, right now, as things are.
And right now I'm alive, so it's okay.

[girlfriend] says:
yeah.

[sister] says:
Make the most out of me being around, it should be a good half a year I think.
Please don't tell my mum.

[girlfriend] says:
okay.

[sister] says:
Thank you.

I know that everyone probably thinks 'talk to her'.
Trust me, it's not that easy. Like I've said, my mum thinks she'd be suicidal if she moved with us... but now she's planning to kill herself before the year is over?
Whenever she comes into my room or when we're deciding what to make ourselves to eat... I can't look at her... not now that I know what's going on.
Not now that I know there's a possibility that she could die... and that she went as far as bleach.
I'm scared, I don't know what to say... or do.The only thing I can think of right now is to tell my mum.

I hope she doesn't find this.
I know that no matter what I say to her... she wont listen to me.
I guess she's stubborn like that, as am I

I love her. She's the sister I am closest to...