I have the nicest mom, but she doesn't want me to have a boyfriend.

**super.panda28** · 02-24-2009, 07:36 AM

okay so im 18 years old. A first year college student..
my problem is that my mom doesn't want me to have a boyfriend till I finish school. I think my dad's kinda cool with it cause he says that I am an adult now. But I don't get to talk to him much often beacuse he works far from home.
So my boyfriend and I (though my mom thinks that he's just courting me) had to break up due to what had happened. I think she doesn't like my bf cause she calls me cheap and easy whenever we go out. she doesn't like him cause she thinks he's poor and not good enough for me.

My mom always compares herself to me she said that she only had a bf when she was 21yo. My dad says she's a little old school. She also always tells me not to trust people especially guys so easily cause they'll just hurt me in the end. I wonder if some guy hurt her in the past hmm... She tells me that she's only protecting me from myself. She doesn't want me to make mistakes like my pther cousins who got married early due to pregnancy. I understand her, but is she being to protective? I am so not happy right now. I don't know what to do. advice anyone? does this sound like a rant?

**sourpuss** · 02-24-2009, 09:21 AM

the situation sounds understandable from all perspectives. You mom calling you names is not cool though. That's immature. Sounds like she has trouble expressing how she feels and she probably gets frustrated when she can't control you now that you're 18.

My advice would be to just be patient. Show your mom that you are responsible and can handle school and a boyfriend without failing out or getting pregnant. In the end she's only being this way because she thinks she's protecting you.

**super.panda28** · 02-24-2009, 10:27 AM

aww thank you! that helps a lot

so mg guy and I should really wait until I have a go sign from my mom that it's okay?
im gonna start school this june. so ill wait 3 more years! i hope not
but im gonna take your advice and be responsible enough. anyone else?

02-24-2009, 07:36 AM	#1
super.panda28 VIP Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: the pearl of the orient xD Posts: 69	I have the nicest mom, but she doesn't want me to have a boyfriend. okay so im 18 years old. A first year college student.. my problem is that my mom doesn't want me to have a boyfriend till I finish school. I think my dad's kinda cool with it cause he says that I am an adult now. But I don't get to talk to him much often beacuse he works far from home. So my boyfriend and I (though my mom thinks that he's just courting me) had to break up due to what had happened. I think she doesn't like my bf cause she calls me cheap and easy whenever we go out. she doesn't like him cause she thinks he's poor and not good enough for me. My mom always compares herself to me she said that she only had a bf when she was 21yo. My dad says she's a little old school. She also always tells me not to trust people especially guys so easily cause they'll just hurt me in the end. I wonder if some guy hurt her in the past hmm... She tells me that she's only protecting me from myself. She doesn't want me to make mistakes like my pther cousins who got married early due to pregnancy. I understand her, but is she being to protective? I am so not happy right now. I don't know what to do. advice anyone? does this sound like a rant?

02-24-2009, 09:21 AM	#2
sourpuss WH Moderator Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Montana Posts: 1,375	the situation sounds understandable from all perspectives. You mom calling you names is not cool though. That's immature. Sounds like she has trouble expressing how she feels and she probably gets frustrated when she can't control you now that you're 18. My advice would be to just be patient. Show your mom that you are responsible and can handle school and a boyfriend without failing out or getting pregnant. In the end she's only being this way because she thinks she's protecting you. __________________ Hard work beats talent, when talent doesn't work hard. Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

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02-24-2009, 10:27 AM	#3
super.panda28 VIP Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: the pearl of the orient xD Posts: 69	aww thank you! that helps a lot so mg guy and I should really wait until I have a go sign from my mom that it's okay? im gonna start school this june. so ill wait 3 more years! i hope not but im gonna take your advice and be responsible enough. anyone else?