Thread: Family Chaos - Not sure what to do? HELP...

Oooh ahh, I guess Sister D, did the hard talk, probably better that step sister A doesn't have the child.

Hun, Sister C needs all the support she can have, does J, feel guilty or doesn't care?

The hard thing about all of this is 4 childen and now one on the way and that all of this is family.

I can't see this surviving longer than the date the child is born or shortly there after.

I appreciate that there are 4 kids, soon to be 5.. But staying for the sake of the kids? when he did what he did? Surely she has no love left after this? This was not cheating, persay, this was family, he gave absolutely no concern for her.

Why should she still cook, clean, feed this person, for the sake of her "family?".

You are family, D is family, there must be more, there must be Government support she can't cope with this, she will see visions on-going as well as the new born, child and knowing there was another, I think you need to give her options...

Are there options for her and her children within her "real family?"...

She is thinking "not clearly" she still feels love and thinks that it won't happen again, or a fear of not being able to survive with 5 kids on her own, understandabily so she is in denial, confused, not to mention hurt and in pain badly.

He did it with Family, not another woman. Family you think she can forgive and forget?

It won't damage her thoughts?

She needs to not be stressed whilst pregnant though so think, because some discussions need to happen "after she has the baby" not before.. but work together as a family to work out what you can do and what she can receive if she was without him... in the meantime... Don't stress her... she's going through enough...

Sorry for you as well and D... must be hard to take.

CW