I have been friends with my now SIL for 8 years. When I started dating my husband her husband's brother she completely changed. Her husband is a truck driver and makes a lot of money so she has always been the bragging type when it comes to things they have. However whenever her husband spends money its normally on a household item or things for their 4 kids. She has always complained that she cannot get anything that she wants. The biggest thing has been that her wedding ring was stolen and for the past 2 years her husband hasn't replaced it. So when her BIL proposed to me I showed her my ring and her response was "Must be nice, I still don't have mine." She is a stay at home mom and is suppose to be doing all of the paperwork for her husbands business but if he only new she hasn't done any of it in over a year. She always says "If he would spend a little bit more on me then maybe I would do his paperwork." This kinda stuff could cost him his job! When the holidays approached she started trying to intimidate me with how "the" family is big into food and that they just all love her cooking. Then would go on to brag that she was making the guys' grandma's chicken and noodles. The funny thing was grandma didn't want anyone having it so she purposely watched her cook it so she could steal the recipe. Then when she prepared it Thanksgiving everyone hated it and even told her. I asked my husband what he wanted me to bring to their meal and he requested lemon cake and pecan pie. When I bake I bake from scratch and my husband loves it well it turned out so did the family. She spent the day shooting me dirty looks when anyone would compliment my dishes and would want to take my stuff home. I have no desire to compete with this woman and no need to however it feels like a daily basis that she has to make anything a compitition. She does nothing at home but gossip about friends and family. No desire to work and allows her children to run wild at families homes and leaves them to clean up the mess. The most recent incident is that she allows her 10 and 14 year olds have facebook pages and doesn't monitor them. Myself and my husband got requests from a girl that used her page to advertise her porn. Her son had this person! When I contacted her about she said that she knew the girl. Which blew my mind. Then turned around and said that her son added her by his phone and had no idea who she was just that she had a lot of friends in common with him. Well my husbands grandfather got a request and so he added her thinking it was one of his great grandsons kids he is a minister and is willing to befriend anyone. That was until he seen her page. I spoke to him about the matter and explained to him how to delete. I informed my SIL of this and again she didn't care it was no big deal and her son learned a lesson. Well I investigated the girls page and found 10 more minors from the area so i turned it over to the police dept whom had her removed and are filing charges. I spoke to the SIL again and told her and she tried to tell me that she called the PD and they said they couldnt do anything. Its never ending. How do I deal with this woman for the rest of my life!!!