You posted on an old thread, therefore, i moved it to a new one.
But I have to ask pertaining to this part:-
Why would your husband say that? Is that respectful to anyone? I would vent my anger as well and ask him to to compare...For intance, once my husband had just told her that she is fat n i am thin. and so she had vented out her anger on him by asking him nt to compare her with me.
I think your sister-in-law simply has had a hard time comprehending her brother is married and there is another woman in his life and that she was close to him...
You haven't really said "what your SIL does that is wrong" and I don't understand why you feel your MIL should tell her she is wrong?
That's their daughter... Your their daughter-in-law, you all have to get along.
It's a simple case that your SIL loves your husband and is having difficulties and you see her as a problem instead of extending your arms out and making her feel it's okay.
It's only been 2 years....
It's good that your husband has supported you and it's good you have been nice for two years but what are you feeling she is "tortuing you over"...
Your not telling the whole story.