Thread: inlaw troubles

what to do ????? well, how would you live a normal life when your inlaws claim to disown your husband His whole family suppose to have disowned him and our children but now since 5 years and during those 5 years theres been nothing but sneaking tactics pulled. It all started when we allowed his mother and grandmother to live on our proprty rent free only that they would pay for the well and septic tank that they would need to live their At the begining we were going to pay for the well and septic tank but his mother insisted that they would pay to have it done seens they would be living their rent free. As time went on we found out that his mother had been telling everyone that it was her property well thought we had got that straighten out but along come more trouble She started talking hateful to our kids ingnoring them shooting birds at them and to take the cake had my husbands brothers wife on the property drunk and possibe on drugs naked weighting on my husband to come over.it wasnt the first time this was allowed of sis in law in the nuded in front of our kids well to make it short they had to move so they decided to sue us for her well septic tank turned out they could not legally sue us Now me and the kids our being disowned and he says nothing about what they do or say to us He bushes it off like If thats what they are doing or he wont even accept the fact of what there saying or doing He wonts to just drop the subject but we are human me and our kids have feelings i wish it was that easy just to over look them but its not when they have our 25 year old niece calling and making smart remarks over the phone theres more but to long a story thats seems to never end

Originally Posted by AFemaleProdigy

It sound to me like your husband needs to stand up for you and your children. He needs to tell them to treat you right or they don't need to be involved in your lives at all. You and your children should be priority to him... not the rest of his family. When you get married, you become the most important person. That is just how it is.

It sounds to me like the in-laws should be kicked off the property to go take care of themselves. If they cannot be respectful and caring, then they don't need to be around. They sound very ungreatful to me.

Your husband had better wake up and deal with the problem or your relationship won't last. There is no way in that I would EVER put up with that. My husband wouldn't get any rest by me until he took care of the situation.

I agree with your post 100%. Spouses come first. period.