My mother was always a heroine for me
When i run out of option, my mother was there.
she cares me and loves more than anyone else.
she plays as my best friend.
Last DEcember 2008, I left our home and gone to manila.
not expected to be here in UAE..
I have one son and left it to her.
we got separated with my husband. I left a small business for her for the mean time while i don't have work yet.
I left my business for her and my sibling to provide them foods and survive in daily expenses. me? i have to work to pay the debt of my father's debt.(father dead) I'm running out of money every month just to satisfied them. I don't care bout myself.
My salary is not enough for her. she wants more.. and advise me to go back home and take care of my son. she was the one who wants me to work abroad. she was supporting me but now that my father died, she wants me to go back because of my salary. she didn't even recognize my effort to help her. IF i will go back? what will happen to us? she wants to nagger me because of my x husband. she wants me to provide money to buy another small business. but i cannot provide that as early as she wants.. now, that we have a fight with my x husband. she's not on my side.. in spite of supporting me, she wants me to go home to take care of my son?
I really can't get her..
any idea?
Can't help it but to love
It is difficult to answer this.
She certainly should be grateful for all you have done and she certainly should be there for you at the moment now that you are in trouble and she should realise and understand all the pain you are going through not having your son and also, trying to help them out of problems.
She is either not coping, is getting hassled, or was always selfish but didn't need to show it until your Dad died and problems occured from there.
Or, your ex-husband has said things somehow that makes her say these things purely to get you home with her as she feels safe, of that ,but it's not really safe because he is manipulating her...
It's hard I don't know the answer for you.
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
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