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    I do agree with Wild...and i'm sorry you have had to go through that. I know its hard
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    WC: Is this the summer reading program? I'm only teasing. I have the first one on hold at the library. When I finish it then I will get the second. (I'm already reading two books) I will read them though. I do want help.

    Joy:
    Some people are hurt so deep they don't know anyother way to live but to hurt themselves and others.
    That really sticks out to me. I've been hurting myself for years through cutting as WC mentioned. Thanks for pointing it out. I hadn't really had it put like that before.

    Ahryin: Thanks. It's a struggle but I'll make it through. I just have to keep fighting.
    "All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."

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    you should tell your brother the angrier he gets the more wrinkles his face will have and who wants to look all nasty like that. he may not like counseling but you can try just being the better person and walking away when he starts to talk. kind of like you wont tolerate his anger. or you can point him to some ZEN or Buddhist books. Those help a lot with the old noggin.

    i wouldn't suggest yelling back or anything because tbh... with people like that it's not what you say its HOW LOUD you are. my sister is the same way. Even if she KNOWS she's wrong she'll start lashing out on me or anyone and make that person feel like .

    remember an eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind. be the better person. work hard save up and move the fudge out of there. i think your other brother has a good idea... staying away. maybe once you get on your feet you can do that too.

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    Reverse physcology...

    When he gets mad, giggle... He'll ask you why your doing that, just say, cause your funny and walk off.
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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    Pixi: I wouldn't return the anger. I know what that would cause and I don't want to make things worse. I just ignore him and yes, absorb his anger but I'm not going to take it anymore. I'll try something else, maybe something CW suggested. I think it would baffle him.


    CW: You always find a way to make me smile. I will try to do that. It's funny. I barely see my brother now that I have my office set up. It's really nice. I don't go upstairs unless it's to go to bed or to eat something.
    "All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."

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    Well I think you are at a point in your life where you want to heal and good for you cause you are young and you have so much more life to live!! Healing can be a long journey all on its own and can take years but its worth it.

    Live in harmony with yourself .... it will help you live in harmony with your surroundings.

    good luck on your journey

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    Thank you Joy.

    "All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."

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