Thread: My Sister broke my Heart

Every one has experienced a pushy person who won't take no for an answer. Oh, come on, try it (,No thanks!) But you have to come on,( No thanks). Come on, (No!) Don't be a baby. (NO)
Oh my God come on.. (resentfully does what you don't want to do...)

I have encountered this with Judy 1 time to many. She has taken photos of me when I asked repeatedly for her not to take them. It's not o.k.
When I asked her to remove them off the internet a minimum of 6 times-- each time becoming more upset that I had to ask more than one time she refused so I gave up.

I went to Judy's and was in the pool and requested again not to take pictures of me, She for some sick reason thinks she can do whatever and say whatever the she wants to everyone.
The following day there Pictures of me wet in the pool in a bathing suit on the internet, I called Judy again repeatedly to remove them and she just flat out refused.

I called Judy the following day and left a message that I was through with her, I had no idea she could be so cruel and I meant it. I have defended Judy''s arrogant, demeaning, thoughtless remarks to more than half the members of this Family, but this time she got me.

Judy has done nothing to resolve this however she did comment on Face book she was interested in Family not my Drama. 2 Months and the photos are still there.

Judy has thrown away a relationship with me for a picture that is my right and my choice-- because she has to win?

Judy's behavior is nothing short of a sick, sadistic person and I have no reason to hide this, I will tell any one who will listen.
I can and have examined from 100 different angles and none of it matters- It still goes back to she has no right whatever excuse she comes up with, what she has done is inexcusable and certainly not how you treat a Sister.
So yes I'm Devastated, I have held every Family function since my Mothers death. That's over. I'm devastated now because of the lack of regard for my feelings, I understand now shes leaving snide remarks about how I've hurt her, but says she will never apologize, nor take off the pictures.
1 of the photos, I was asking her not to take them as she was and I'm in the pool, looking like a whale with watermellons for breasts. shes claiming she loves her family and wants to share photos of them. I don't think I can ever go back from this. My older Sister refuses to be involved and says she sees both sides, I do not get it, I did not want pictures taken and certainly not put on the internet, how can there be 2 sides. Help, Thanks, Debbie