I think largestar is going to just shine her on. I have nothing in common with her except we were born in the same family. Why give her and my Mom something more to told about. People like that don't care who they talk about, it is just fun for them. Makes a Mom feel important to the daughter but, I don't know what emotional need it provides the sister.
Maybe the best thing is to keep your distance, don't discuss these things with her, and try to have compassion and empathy that her mental state is so bad that she feels she has to betray your trust to garner favoritism from someone else.
It's hard but remember that it can only hurt you as much as you allow it to.
Do not dwell in the past,
do not dream of the future,
concentrate the mind on the present moment.
-Lord Buddha
up date. My sisiter is still ad it now my mom won't speak to me because of my sisters lies.
largestar, i wish i could help you. i also belong to a family that plays these games, i see other families that are helpful and supportive to each other and wonder why i got so "lucky" they sometimes cause me so much pain that i take long breaks from them and then have to ignore the guilt they try and push off onto me. anyway good luck.
Happy Ending, I guess that is always adoption .
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