I do totally agree with you and I do feel its a great thing that he's close to his family. I dont want to change that about him. It just drives me crazy that before him and I started dating he went over there maybe once every 3 months. Now that we're together all of a sudden they want him there every week. I know its a good thing because they love me. They pressure him to marry me. His sister (the one that is my age)has told him he better marry me or she will. LOL!!! I dont mind it, its just he needs to realize my family misses me too. Every Saturday cant be visit his family time. Theres gotta be a happy medium that his family can except.
Krystal
Don't smack me, but I think you may be acting a tad selfish.
That's his family. And from what you said, he likes to hang out with them as much as they like to hang out with him.
Sure they might be acting selfish, but you cannot change their behavior. Nor can you change the fact that he's their son. So what can you change to make this situation positive? Only your attitude.
Don't fight this. Go with it. You should be happy that he spends time with his family...that is an honorable trait. If you are going to marry this man someday, you are going to have to live with the in-laws for a very long time.
Unless you want to create tension where tension shouldn't exist, humor the man and visit his family when he wants to go.
Compromise will go far here.
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