Is It just me ?

Mareski · #1 02-03-2007, 02:12 PM

Thanks for all you suggestions

#2 02-03-2007, 02:37 PM

Your mistake was to start doing it in the first place.

One of the things life has taught, hungry people
cook first. Hence, come home not hungry and
don't cook.

Don't let him tell you about his problems, and how
he is tired, so are you. Let the house go to
mess. Leave it. You're tired.

Tell him you're a lousy wife. Lousy homemaker.
Just stop doing everything and slow down.

Let things go.
Eventually either; he will start to do things,
or he'll treat you like dirt.

If he starts, he's a keeper, if he treats you
like dirt, well, get out.

kituli · #3 02-03-2007, 07:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mareski

and if I cook something they don't want i've had it thrown back at me. If I get in an argument I end up defending myself both verbally and physically, sometimes saying things equally as bad as the other party because they me off so bad.

I just get so tired of doing everything and when I ask the other person to help out its ww3. I get called stupid all the time ( or dummy ) maybe I am thats why I'm asking for advice on what I should do....I'm not really a stupid person , I have a university ed and a high position job ,but I think
i'm stuck on this one?

sounds like a pretty abusive relationship. how's your self-esteem? you may need to seek professional help with the abuse part of this living situation. seek help now.

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