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Have you pulled them aside or called them up and asked what it is they have against you? I've found that if you approach this kind of situation very diplomatically and not emotionally, the result are usually surprising.
"The Outlaws"
Where do I begin...this has been bugging me for nearly as long as I have been married- 3 years to be exact. This relates to my sister in laws...all in all I am disliked to put it mildly. The reason I dub them "Outlaws" is simply they are also outsiders like me...we're married to three bros..it just makes sense for us to get on.Well, that aint the case...its more like three's a crowd, I, being the odd one out.Look...they are about the same maybe three or four years(35-40). I am 29 now, I don't get why age should be a problem ...I am almost thirty
Anyway I always got a bad vibe from them...but put it down to being new and at the time I didin't really know them...well surprise...surprise, didn't take long for the claws to show, and green eyed monsters to appear. At first I cried about not being included in lunches, dinners, sleepovers, outings. It really got to me, cos I am generally a good natured person, what was I doin wrong
My husband took the "sitting on the fence stance." Now I just decided not to let it get to me, they aren't sad or upset...I think they get off on letting others feel bad...
I was always on my own, never had any female siblings, so I thought I found some in them...guess not.Just gotta keep your head up
Anyone out there with similar situation?!?
Have you pulled them aside or called them up and asked what it is they have against you? I've found that if you approach this kind of situation very diplomatically and not emotionally, the result are usually surprising.
Maybe try interact with them more, and organise to do more things together that you'll all enjoy. Maybe something 'just for the girls'?
Love isn't about finding the perfect person, but learning to see an imperfect person perfectly <3
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