Thread: Need advice about weird sister - in - law plz ?

what kinda of things does she day about them, if you dont mind me asking?

Just to inform you, she lives in Panama and my brother lives with me in FL. She comes to visit him every other month. Here are the reasons I don't like her Patricias:

- After shes done cooking in MY kitchen using MY kitchen utensils, she doesn't bother to clean, close, or put anything away that shes used.

- She hides strange things in my brother's room, such as cake mixes. She buys juice and puts them in MY fridge, but doesn't like anyone to drink it, but herself or my brother. She says her juices are for her high blood pressure, but my future mother - in - law ( who happens to be a nurse with high blood pressure ) thinks she is probably lying for two reasons.

- She hides in my brother's room all day. If my relatives are over, she comes out to say hi, then retreats. One day I heard her refer to my other brother and his family as " these people ". These two reasons lead me to believe she is probably fake around my family.

- More than once I've seen her get nasty with my other brother's children over wrong reasons, but I haven't told their mother or father about it for two reasons.

- For some unknown reason(s) she doesn't like my boyfriend, but before he knew this, he would always be polite to her, and even hooked her up with Disney tickets that she NEVER said thank you for.

This Wednesday, she is leaving, but I don't think I can stand to be around her in April again. All these things that I've mentioned above, she never used to do. She only started doing these things after she got married. Part of me wants to destory her( not physically ), but the other part of me tells me to listen to my mother. My mother says she's trying to make us cause a scene so that she can play the saint, so that my brother will get upset and move to Panama with her.