Thread: Help!! Husbands Sister Is A Piece Of Work

I NEED HELP!! HOW CAN I TELL MY HUSBAND THAT HIS SISTER IS TALKING HORRIBLY ABOUT MY SON?(HIS STEP SON) HE HAS RAISED MY SON SINCE HE WAS 3. HE IS NOW 17. WE ALSO HAVE 3 OTHER KIDS TOGETHER AND SHE DOES THE SAMETHING TO THEM BUT NOT AS HARSH. THEY ARE YOUNGER 13,10,5. SHE ALSO SEPERATES THEM ONE SHE'LL ASK TO GO WITH HER AND THE OTHERS CANT. AND SHE'LL QUESTION THEM ABOUT EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING. AND IF MY YOUNGEST SAYS HEY I BEEN TO THIS PARK BEFORE, AND SHE HASN'T THATS WHAT I HEAR YOU NEED TO WATCH OUT FOR HER SHE GOING TO BE A LIAR SHE WILL TELL ALL KINDS OF STORIES. AS SHE LAUGHS. IT SOUNDS SO STUPID BUT ITS ALL THE TIME . SHE WILL ONLY TELL ME THINGS LIKE THAT NOT HER BROTHER. BUT SHE TALKS ABOUT HIM TOO. IF MY DAUGHTER AND HER SON RACE AND MY DAUGHTER BEATS HER SON OH MY GOD! HER SON MUST HAVE BEEN SO TIRED TO LET THAT HAPPEN. SHE ALWAYS SEEMS TO HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY TO ME. I TRY TO STAY AWAY WHEN WE VISIT, BUT SHE FOLLOWS AND STARTS WITH THE QUESTIONS. RECENTLY SHE TOLD HER TWO OLDER DAUGHTERS THAT SHE THOUGHT MY SON WOULD PUT A SPELL ON HER! WHAT? AND MADE THEM READ ALL KINDS OF BOOKS ON WITCH CRAFT AND WICCA, WE ARE NEITHER. SHE MAKES HER KIDS STUDY THE BIBLE ALL THE TIME, THEY DONT GO OUTSIDE WITHOUT HER AND THEY ARE 18,16,7. HER KIDS ARE AFRAID OF HER. THEY JUST SAY YOU DONT LIVE WITH HER. HER GIRLS LIKE ALL MY KIDS AND WE LIKE THEM, BUT WHEN THEY HAVE TO LIE TO USE THE PHONE TO CALL ANYONE INCLUDING US ITS A BIT MUCH. AND WHEN THEY TOLD MY SON ABOUT WHAT THEIR MOM SAID ABOUT HIM IT FLOORED ME! THEY KNOW THERE MOTHER IS WRONG WE KNOW SHE IS WRONG SHE NEEDS TO BE TOLD THAT. MY SON MADE ME PROMISE NOT TO TELL DAD BECAUSE HE DOESNT WANT THE GIRLS TO GET INTO TROUBLE. IM HAVING A HARD TIME DOING THAT. I REALLY FEEL SHE CROSSED THE LINE ALONG TIME AGO. AND SHE NEEDS TO QUIT! OR DONT SEE ANY OF OUR KIDS AGAIN. SHE TALKS ABOUT HOW FAITHFUL SHE IS AND CHRISTIAN SHE IS HOW GOD IS #1 IN HER LIFE THATS HOW SHE LIVES. I THINK SHE IS FULL OF A PRETENDER AND NEEDS TO BE TOLD BOLDLY TO HER FACE. SHOULD I DO IT OR JUST LET HER KEEP TALKING ABOUT ALL OF US? IM REALLY HAVING A HARD TIME WITH THIS. I BELIEVE MY HUSBAND WOULD SAY SOMETHING TO HER THATS WHY IM TORN BETWEEN MY SON AND MY PROMISE. HELP PLEASE!!!

Without telling your husband, if you feel that her comments are too much and they are negatively affecting your children, don't let your kids go around her.

I certainly don't want that for my children!

If she's a Christian, she needs to act like what she professes to be; otherwise, she shows herself to be a liar and a hypocrite.

And she's telling people she thinks your son is going to put a "spell" on her? She made her kids read witchcraft books because she believes this?
Is she on meds?

She does NOT sound like a well-woman.