My daughter is a signal mom. She is no longer with the child father. They were seeing each other off and on. Know it is suppose to be over and she is dating someone else.
He is five years older then her has 2 children and lives with his mother. They started talking and she told him she wanted to wait. He keeps pushing her. She finally said ok we will go together. O Lord Help

You all know the drill, whether daughter is
fourteen, twenty four, or fourty four.

Anything you say can and will be used against you.

If she asks you, point blank...what should I do..
go ahead..
she's not going to like it anyway, she's asking you
because she doesn't want to, and what you have
to do is not make it too harsh.

For example...

Instead of saying; "Don't!"

Pause and think and say..."Rather hasty?" as if you
can go either way.

Instead of giving reasons why...

look at her, quietly ask; "Is that what you want?"

I have an 18 yoa daughter who is now liking a 22 yoa man who is recently divorced. She hasn't even graduated high school and has her whole life ahead of her. She want's to start college in the fall. I am worried for her. He also is very smothering. Now his ex is trying to start something. I dont want my daughter drawn into it. It scares me. I like him but this is going too fast.

He's going to get her mixed up in his little
drama. Nothing guys like him love more
than ruining a girl's life.

And because she's eighteen, you can't even
put your foot down. She really shouldn't be
seeing him. A guy like that, with all his baggage.

I wish she could understand that she should look
about herself first, and then get involved with men
once she's complete.