Thread: Mother Trouble !!

Hi I am new here so i don't know how to start...
My mom is nice to me... and i clearly remember that I'm nice too. It is once in 3 months that i shout at her... but I need to know that is my situation 'shout able'.
I get up late in the morning, around 10 am. and my mother and maid keep coming in my room. I'm half asleep so i don't notice much. Sometimes she and sometimes the maid leave the door open, which annoys me. But i always call mom to shut it. ( i do remember being low in tone)
Another time, I went to my brother's room to get something, he was almost sleeping. I asked him normally two times (when he asks me when i'm sleeping, i always always help him). Then i got angry, n i snatched his blanket. This drove him mad and his literal words were "get out, i'll kill you. How dare you do that ? "
I got double mad n opened all his drawers myself. I finally got it. My mother came looking for me, but she saw me angry, i told her all that happened. To this she replied ' you do the same when we come to your room'. I got mad and asked her what she meant. as usual, she always always lies about me. When i asked her when i had done that, she gave an evil look. Then she started accusing me that in my entire life i've never been polite. And that i'm so rude. Hearing this i got v.loud shouting "why do you have to lie always?".

she doesn't consider the 360 days of me being polite. But she'll always see those 5 days i wasn't.
till this date she taunts my dad for not treating her right at the beginning of their marriage ( they celebrated 25th anniv.)
I remember i was young and had just got my 1st periods... but after 2 months i missed a month (1 month only) as immature womb does it. She got furious at me and said if a girl goes through is that means she's pregnant. And the way she said it creeps me out till now. Since then i've stopped sharing my personal details with her.

I tried to open up with her...i always apologize for being loud and rude... but she always repeats it... and it kills me so much. If she cares to respect me, only then can i do the same.....

dont know why she is always anti-me. its not just me, but my dad and brother also admitted that she lies. But when she lies about me, everybody believes it. She says that with an attitude like 'this', i'll always have misery and failures in life. She has never been a mentor to me, but always 'WHAT I SHOULD NOT BE".
i do not remember the previous things that happened, but i clearly remember the consequences that followed them...
Why ????? What is wrong with her?