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Reply With QuoteOh no, love.
I'm so sorry. That's terrible news. Do you have friends and family where you are to help you get through the initial grief?
Am so depressed...I lost my baby sister.
My life has just been put in to more confusioning state...
my baby sister just died..i just cant belive she is no more with me..
i have been felling so alone...a part of me has died too..
Oh no, love.
I'm so sorry. That's terrible news. Do you have friends and family where you are to help you get through the initial grief?
im sooooooooooo sorry to hear about your news i hope you have got friends or family that can help you through this difficult time my thoughts are with you.
yes i have my family but everybody is feeling so deverstated knw.
my mum is so depressed.
my husband is not helping. i got a few friends that are been surppotive.
Aw sweetheart. Your husband probably just doesn't know what to do. Maybe you should just straight up tell him what you need right now. It's really awkward trying to console someone in your situation, he's probably afraid of just making it worse.
I too am so sorry, you must be devistated.
Don't think your husband doesn't care, he more than likely, doesn't have a clue what to do to help as Sourpuss stated, so he's staying in the background..
Don't be afraid to "ask" to be held, and let it out, he more than likely wants to do that.
Keep strong.. wish there was something else we could say.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
lovely, I am so very sorry to hear this. Such tragic news
Like everyone has said in the above posts, you need to be around your loved ones and family. Although everyone is grieving at the moment for the loss of your sister - it is suprising how much you need each other to help you through this grieving process.
Like CW says, dont think your husband doesnt care. Everyones grief develops and presents itself differently. Some people feel quite open in sharing their feelings during this sad time - whilst others keep it to themselves.
Dont be afraid to let people know how your feeling. And dont be afraid to ask for help.
Im thinking of you xxx
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - Chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming WOO-HOO what a ride!!"
"I dream about being with you forever." - Twilight
I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. When we love and care for someone it's hard not to have them where we can love them and touch them. Reach out to those around you, your parents and other siblings and let them know how much you love them.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
Thank you everybody it really comforting to just have other's talk you our ur depression..
I took CW's advice and just asked my husband to hold me and i really cried my heart out.
He siad he d'nt knw what to say or do, so i wont be more upset..
I really do miss my sister...
i lost my sister too.
im so sorry you're going through this
cry as much as you need to
x
'so why care for these petty obsessions? your designer heart still beats with common blood. and what if you could have genetic perfection? would you change who you are if you could?'
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