Little brother going off to college

**kristalyn_04** · 08-29-2010 02:36 PM

My baby brother is starting college this week at UNC for Computer Engineering!

I have a slight concern, I know that college kids like to experiment with alcohol and drugs... both my parents have had substance abuse problems so we have a genetic disposition to develop a problem should we ever start drinking or trying anything else. I have made the decision to never drink or smoke or do anything else for this reason, but he may not make the same choice and eventually succumb to peer pressure. I trust him and have confidence that he'll make the right decisions, he's a good kid, but I can't help but be a bit concerned. But, other than that, I am really excited for him and know he will do well... he's smart just like his big sister lol. I'm so proud of him and just wanted to share.

**x.st.angel.x** · 08-29-2010 06:07 PM

Hey kristalyn

You have a good reason to be concerned, but at the end of the day your little brother is going to have to make his own decisions (im sure you already know that

) but maybe a sister to brother heart to heart talk might do the trick??

**Mes T** · 08-29-2010 06:16 PM

I think for most college students, drinking is almost inevitable.

But it doesn't have to be a bad thing, just another one of those experiences. Have confidence that your bro will act responsibly, but that he won't forget to have a little fun too.

**kristalyn_04** · 08-29-2010 06:34 PM

lol yup you're right, I wouldn't want him to be deprived of some college fun, I just want him to be careful. I still had fun in college without ever drinking, I just don't think it's necessary to drink in order to have fun... but yeah in the end it's his choice and I'm sure he will be fine. Thanks!