Thread: My sister is coming to my wedding

If I were you, I wouldn't worry so much. But... I would let my fiance know that she can be a little vixen... just so he knows to be extra careful on not giving her any signals she could take the wrong way. He may be over polite since she is your sister... and she may take it as flirting , etc... if she's know to try to get all mens attention... its not that you have to make a big deal about it to your fiance... just let him know she's a bit much in that department. That'll let him be aware to be a bit more... conservative around her than he might have been otherwise.

You don't need to embarass her... but there is no harm in introducing her to the male friends as this is my BABY sister, who's in high school !! To give the guys a heads up that while she is hot, they have no business hitting on her... will make things safer for her and for them.

We all have or have had that family member or dear friend that doesn't understand or respect bounderies so its good to be aware of that, don't be suspicious though... enjoy your big day!! You can be aware without being paranoid, and you can give her the benefit of the doubt... she may have toned down her act!

I'm not trying to be a therapist here, but it sounds like your sister is using attention from guys as a way to self-affirm her identity. Have you tried talking to her about that? Obviously, this has more to do with HER than your husband-to-be... But you said you love her, so she should maybe do a little soul-searching. Otherwise, I would gently warn both her and the hubby that flirting isn't allowed. Also introducing her as your sister in high school is a good idea.

We had our turkey dinner Friday because my husband had to work Thanksgiving day. His partner came over for dinner. My sister sat next to partner, and they talked all through dinner. After dinner, they kept to themselves and talked and joked until almost midnight. He obviously liked her she is very beautiful and looks older than 17.

I got married today, it made us legal, after the ceremony we were all going to meet at a restaurant for dinner together. My sister decided to ride with partner and they were going to meet us at the restaurant. They never showed up. He brought her home at 10:30. She swears they never had sex but because of her past, I don't believe her. My husband had warned his partner about her but he don't remember if he told him she was only 17 and a high school student. She looks older than me and is shaped like a model, so I don't blame him if he fell for her charms. I'm not really worried about her, she knows how to take care of herself, but if he fell for her he might miss her when when she leaves this afternoon. I feel bad about the whole situation, if the authorities found out, he could be changed with statutory rape.