Touchy. But I would stay low key and limit it to an occasional, casual, how's it going?
Who knows they may turn out to have a connection. How would you feel about it if they got serious?
My sister asked me if I mind if she dates my ex boyfriend. I told her it didn't bother me. Please keep in mind, they had only met a time or two in passing and have nothing in common except a link to me, it's not that they were close or anything because of our dating. Am I supposed to still ask her how her dates are? We are extremely close and talk in detail about pretty much all aspects of our lives. The problem lies here: she frequently reminds me me how much better she is than I (smarter, more beautiful, funnier, sociable) therefore I'm afraid she's going to think I'm jealous because I'm asking questions, but really I just don't want things to change between us and I don't want to NOT ask about her life (with or without him) and act like it's not happening, because that would just seem uncharacteristic of our relationship. Does anyone have any kind of advice to help me out here?! I don't want to lose my relationship with my sister but I don't know how to approach this! It's a sticky situation, to put it lightly! Thank you!!!
Last edited by SimplyLovely; 03-14-2011 at 10:09 AM. Reason: Grammar Error
Touchy. But I would stay low key and limit it to an occasional, casual, how's it going?
Who knows they may turn out to have a connection. How would you feel about it if they got serious?
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
The funniest part of this is that she hadn't liked him when I met him, and said he would just use me and that he was a "scumbag" and that I should stay away from guys like him. I was very young when we first dated. If it goes the same route as the other ones she's preyed on, she will use and abuse him for 2 weeks & then dispose of him. It's just never the type of thing I imagined would ever be a problem! I think it would be extremely awkward for everyone involved if she got serious with him. What an odd situation!
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