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    Hi there. Firstly, welcome to the forum and lots of love from all the lovely ladies and guys here. It is very sad that your family love you conditionally (that is, they love you if you conform to their ways of leading a life) There are millions of parents in the world that love their children like this, but many millions love their kids even if they have made a mistake(you admitted it was a mistake) However, it is done now, and it's time to move on. You have tried to come round to your family and now you should sit back and let them come to you if they can. Thank god for the help of your dad's uncle.What a lovely man he must be. Take strength from his love. Think only of the future. That baby must be loved and looked after and you must enjoy life too! One day you will look into your baby's eyes and see that this was no mistake. The love you have for him/her will rise above all of this. Godbless you darling xx

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    Hi sweetheart, just wanted to add on to what everyine has been saying.

    Your strong, and will be stronger.

    Do not think negative, just try, because now the most important person in your life is your baby..who will depend on you, who would want you to be happy...

    The thing about working full time now, if your studying, then continue to study i think and just keeo with something parttime, but if your not studying then go for the full time work. Your education is really important too,always remember that honey.

    About your father....my dads strict too, and would probably do the exact same thing so i can understand you to that limit...but one thing honey...it will take time. Dont dwell too much over your dad not talking to you right now, give him time, ,dont think about it too much, dads need time to cool off, and hes just angry and thats normal. Dont think about it too much because im sure it will put you down and upset you. There is no point at all. He will talk to you in the future, but just give him time ok. Dont be too pushy either. Just use this time to save some money,and to plan and organise your education ok.

    Like i said, your strong now, and you will be stronger. Dont give up, dont cry too much, think happy thoughts, mainly about the baby and about yourself growing up. Things never go to plan, but this was in your destiny, you could see it as a blessing or a task. Both actually do your best. And you will be fine.

    Xxxxxx youl be in my prayers.
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    Nice answer Littleprincess. Good to have a neighbour here. x

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    littleprincess that was beautiful

    Sweetheart you don't have any friends? Yes, you do us lot

    Keep coming here and tell us how things are going, when you are sad, vent, when you are happy tell us, what ever you want to express, express it here on your thread.

    You know when the baby arrives and your parents see how strong and focused you are, they will be there, it is their grandchild afterall.....

    Time is all you need.

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    How are you feeling today sweet?
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
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    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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    Thanks everyone. Firstly I have decided I am keeping my baby =) I thought a lot about adoption but I just couldn't do it. I need to take responsibility, I know I will be a great mother. I am still continuing to study & still working part time. I am thinking of moving out to a little apartment kind of thing. I found one which is $130 a week. I don't know how much longer living here with my dad's uncle will work out. He needs his space. Sometimes on Friday's my older brothers come & visit me here, which is great. They are helping me out a lot. I feel much more relaxed and positive about things now. I just noticed I never told how far along I am. I am 3 months, still early but its going by very quick. =))

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    Hi, chandlers wish. I am good thanks, I feel much better now that I have people I can talk to and have great advice from you all =)

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    LGO, great to hear you are doing well.
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    LGO, I like that

    Well see you can't get rid of us that easily...

    http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...earchid=712687

    Have a look in the pregnancy section, Agony_Aunts posts, only read the endings But she is also going through simular things maybe you two can buddy up here and be friends

    What ever goals you set out - believe that they will come true, because if you believe, then the Universe will work with you to make it happen.....

    Just a little thing to offer you for now..

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    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
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    you sound like a very mature, determined, strong woman and you will make a wonderful mother, keep doing what you are doing, I myself was kicked out of my parents home at 16, not cuz i was preggo but cuz i wanted to find my biological father, which i believe in my eyes i had every right to do as I got older i realized i looked nothing like my dad so i questioned my mom she wouldnt give me answers i went to my gramma and she knew who he was and helped me find him, both my mom and my step dad and my sister disowned me as well as the rest of the family and you know what 12 years later they still dont talk to me and now i dont talk to my bio-dad either as he turned out to be an and even tho i felt i had the right to know what he was like i feel my family shouldnt have disowned me they should have helped me, but no, i come to terms that i will probably never hear from them and from that i am a stronger person, i do have one son that i had at 19, and they never met him, ive sent pictures and xmas cards and what not to show im the better person and still no response from them...stay strong life is all about learning Good Luck Sweety, you have lots of support here from us,,,,wish i wasnt another country away or id come and help you!

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