Thread: Moving Out of Parents Home - HELP!

Firstly you have to ask yourself, if you didn't have a boyfriend, would you still be moving out?

Because if you move in with him and his grandparents, if things don't work out, where do you go?

Base this decision on what YOU want to do, not move out because you have a boyfriend and want to live with him.

Moving out can be tough, and being out there on your own, paying your own bills and so on, isn't as easy as it looks. If you do move in with your boyfriend, bills have to be split in half and each pay equal amounts, as you say you have more money saved. You say he earns more but you have more saved, so you seem more practical with money.
You really have to think this over before any decisions are made.

If it's okay with you that all of the money you have saved will be gone in the blink of an eye, then move out or move in with your boyfriend.

If not? Then don't.

While I don't know your situation, I think it will be far easier and better financially for both of you, if you patch things up with your mother.

Ask yourself some tough questions:

Why do mom and I fight?

What are most fights about?

If I were her and she were me, would it be the same result? Why? Why not?

Fighting is generally very childish or over stupid little childish things. Mature adults dont fight very often. Mature adults discuss and work through their problems and concerns without allowing it to degrade to fighting.

There are many amazing ladies in this forum that have probably had similar life experiences with their mother's...listen to them, learn from them, do what the majority of them recommend.

As a man, my ability to help you is limited.

I wish you all the best.

If it's okay with you that all of the money you have saved will be gone in the blink of an eye, then move out or move in with your boyfriend.

If not? Then don't.

While I don't know your situation, I think it will be far easier and better financially for both of you, if you patch things up with your mother.

Ask yourself some tough questions:

Why do mom and I fight?

What are most fights about?

If I were her and she were me, would it be the same result? Why? Why not?

Fighting is generally very childish or over stupid little childish things. Mature adults dont fight very often. Mature adults discuss and work through their problems and concerns without allowing it to degrade to fighting.

There are many amazing ladies in this forum that have probably had similar life experiences with their mother's...listen to them, learn from them, do what the majority of them recommend.

As a man, my ability to help you is limited.

I wish you all the best.