Thread: My Sister and Her Fake Boobs

I guess I just need to vent, and hoping someone can provide some good advice to help me get throug this continuous drama I have with my older sister. Here goes...I'm 30, she's 36--we've always been very close. I was even the nanny to her to children (now 14, 16). She was pregnant and married at 19 and never really had those moments to experience fun and wild behavior of your early 20s...the problem is, is that she's going through that phase now, or least has been for approximately the last three years. We went from being great friends nad now nearly enemies. I can't figure out if I'm filled with anger, jelously, hate...fear? But whatever it is, the emotion is consuming me. My sister went from the fun girl who loved to hang out, grab an occasional drink to an alcoholic...two years ago she got so drunk at my wedding, she missed the entire event and passed out before dinner. For months my niece and nephew would tell me that thier mom is once again drunk. She of course blames it all on her husband. She has now quit drinking all togeter, which I'm happy about, but now her new thing is image. She and her husband literally live in the money pit house. Everything from roof the walls to the floors are falling apart. But, rather than slowing her lifestyle down (frequent vacation, renting condos and ski resort all winter, shopping, boob job) she keeps going and going and puts this image on like her life is perfect. What kind of mother leaves her two children home to run a race out of stat,e and while she was there parties with Kid Rock and talks about it non stop at her son's 16 bday party. I guess I am just so frustrated with her poor decisions it's eating away at me. Now with the whole boob job thing, I thought its her body, what do I care. But yesterday when I saw her with her swim suit on, I was disgusted with her. It was proof that she is so self centered and self absorbed....they are so big, and she says the doctor had to make them that big, but she doesn't want anyone to notice...BS you don't go from an A to a D w/ out noticing...she only cares of herself...her image. I asked if she told her daughter because its obvious everyone know...she's says her daughte will not talk to her about it... I just don't get how a mother can't just speak to her daughter and give her an explanation of why she did this. I 'm so furious with her poor decisions her lifestyle and everything else! Can anyone relate?