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    Default help me please, my sons father kidnapped him and is hiding him from me

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    my sons father and i iboth have rights and no set visitation, but i have the exclusive to determine where he lives. He took him from my moms last night and is hiding him so i cant get him back. he threatened to take him out of state so i can never find them. they wont answer the door for the cops. going to court could take months. I cant go months without seeing my baby. somebdy please help me. what can i do?? i dont even know where to start

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    I think your best/only option is contacting a lawyer and still going through the authorities.

    It is a very very unfortunate situation, but I think you need to keep the law on your side here.
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    Start with contacting a lawyer ASAP! Preferably one with expertise in TX child custody law
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    Be the squeaky wheel. Hound the police about it....call every day and report him missing and force them to look at your issue. Contact a lawyer ASAP. In the meantime, record as many phone calls from him as you can. Save all texts. Write down dates and times. Keep everything. Again, contact a lawyer ASAP.

    Sorry you're going through this, it must be an incredibly helpless feeling. But you do have some power here, don't let your sadness and worry get in the way of being proactive and getting your son back.

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    All of the above and start marshaling forces by using the internet and the media to force the hand of the police. Many times the police "haven't got the memo" that this is a crime, not a family argument.
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    Hi Tracy,

    I'm so sorry you have to go through this... but, know that we are here to support you and be there for you.

    His Family would know something but they will not tell you, naturally... Is the car under your name jointly? Report it missing...I realise that they will note if found that your husband is driving it, with child but at least you know where they located him, which direction he was heading. I'm not asking you to lie to the Police check with a lawyer of the ramifications surely compassion will come to play as to why you reported that.

    Do you have enough friends and family to watch his family for a few days? He may first lay low.

    Please come back to us and tell us how you are
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