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Reply With QuoteOooooh, there are so many "wrong" things to do that would feel so right. Lol. Way to go on the self control!
Well her mom and her had a talk this weekend. Things seem to have gone well, other than my daughter is now completely embarrassed around me now. She is going to have to earn her phone back and we are checking on what parental controls the provider offers. We have scanned her computer, but are also going to instal controls on that as well. I saw the boy at the school football game Friday night. It was soooo hard not to walk up, introduce myself and then tell his girlfriend what has been happening. God I hate being an adult sometimes.
Oooooh, there are so many "wrong" things to do that would feel so right. Lol. Way to go on the self control!
Sometimes, you only need to give that "LOOK" and it works a charm
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
Well the fact that he doesn't know who I am would have made the look ineffective. Then again him not knowing me would have made the slap nice. But then being at the game and the sherrif being there would have made it hard to explain. I go to the games to support and cheer for my daughter. She is my jewel and I wish as all parents do that she realizes this.
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I'm sure she is a bit embarrassed with you knowing she sent Pic's of her in her Underwear, And it's a Good thing that she is.. She may realize, through her Embarrassment, that you simply do not sent those kind of Pics out, Especially at 15 years old.
Now let her "Stew " a bit, week or two or until she gets her Privileges back. Then when you give her the phone and or Comp back, explain that Underwear are Private items worn in private, under clothes ( her age especially) for a reason.
While Bikini Bathing suits are worn in public for all to see, but she is still too young to be sending Boys her pic's that show so much skin..
That doesn't mean she can't go to a pool Party or Beach trip and not wear a Bikini, But you frown on her wearing her Underwear, ( Bra and Panties ) anywhere but under her clothes. Or in front of her Mom.
A Simple clarification for her is asking if she would go outside in the yard or a public function like the beach and let all the neighbors, strangers or friends see her in her Undies ?
Another is , if she was invited to the neighbors Pool Party or Beach trip, would she wear her Undies to swim in and walk around in or her Bathing suit?
When she answers those questions, ask her why she chose her answer ?
They Key here is... First Thought in peoples minds ..
Example : Even myself as a 56 year old woman, when I see Lingerie Ads like Victoria's Secret.
I Think SEX, it's meant to enhance Sexy or Sexual feelings. And, I admit, my first thought is that girls gets laid alot .. lol
But if I see an Ad for a Bathing Suit, even a Bikini, or a Show or Pictures of a Woman in a Swimsuit... I think Sun, Beach, Pool. Lake. River And Fun.
I think you get the drift ?
I hope she will too, with yours and your wife's, gentle but Firm and Understanding Love.
Been through Raising 4 Teens, 2 Boys, 2 Girls. Now 36-21..
It isn't always Easy , Trust me, and I've made mistakes. But they are all Alive.
Not a Pro here, but if ya need some lived through Advise, PM or Friend me, I'll help when and if I can ..
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