my sister is bugging me out...

**Luci** · 10-25-2011 02:15 AM

my older keeps asking me to do stuff that i'm not into and i dont want to say no to her because she's my sister but its really making feel uncomfortable... should i tell my parents or just ignore her..? i'm not sure what to do for the best

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-25-2011 02:37 AM

Hi Luci,

You know? If you feel un-comfortable then don't do it, no matter what it is she is suggesting...Never feel you "have to do something" because of someone else, that's their thought right? Not yours.

Can you give us some ideas of what?

How old is your older sister and you sweet.

**Luci** · 10-25-2011 02:45 AM

me i'm 16 and my sister is 20 its nothing major she just keeps trying to take pervy pics of me on her phone...

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-25-2011 02:53 AM

Well, you are 16, how about telling her that anyone she was to send that too, could put it up on you tube and when she is 30 she would regret what she did to you? Let her know that's a fear. But that you love her, but the answer is NO.

You do realise you can say NO sometimes giving someone something to think about too really helps in your answer of NO...

Could you do that?

**Luci** · 10-25-2011 02:57 AM

i dont think she is doing it on purpose just as a joke to make fun of me i guess...

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-25-2011 04:21 AM

Well, why? Judging from your photo you are beautiful and probably ample?

Maybe she wishes she was you?

If you feel she is making fun of you how does that make you feel? To me you look beautiful

**Luci** · 10-25-2011 04:31 AM

thanks for the kind words

i've not thought about it like that, it makes me feel kinda smug i guess

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-25-2011 03:02 PM

Well feel smug, it's true.

But, keep your puppys to yourself, they belong to you, remember photos can end up anywhere sweet....

Stand tall, feel beautiful and stand up for yourself, with your rights

**Luci** · 10-26-2011 02:14 AM

yeah i'm gonna be a bit more careful with they way i present myself, i dont think i do myself any favours and i think my sister is taking advantage of that sometimes...