Thread: psycho SIL-and the lease

Definitely talk to your current landlord about getting out of the lease, getting Lolo a roommate, whatever. You didn't mention if you had told the landlord you would be moving out? Most leases continue on as a month-to-month after the original terms; I assume you want to stop paying after the lease is up, so make sure the lease will be OVER when it is done!
Personally, I would say, leave Lolo in the dust and lose her contact information! She is not YOUR family, and you have no obligation to her. As long as she has her autonomy, she isn't going to get help, either for her physical conditions or the obvious mental one(s), and will continue wreaking havoc on everyone around her. Let your husband and "B" deal with that, as necessary. Wash your hands of it.
But maybe follow the advice about getting her punished for abusing her searching power at work. Her boss could get in serious trouble if it is found out he is "letting" her do it - as an innocent party, he deserves protection.

well we tried, but the landlord would not call us back... and then we thought why should we have the blood on our hands?
so we came to the conclusion that we'll be moving out (chewing off our own limb)~ my husband will pay half the rent at the old apartment along with lolo.
and i will be taking care of the new apartment. (that's why for the woot up above- it was looking like i was going to overextend myself this next year.. so those 100 dollars off coupons really came in handy... real handy.
so what it boils down to is we are married, but it's like we are going to be living on single incomes here the next 10 months or so...

and lolo at first, she was fine with the idea- even offering up the coffee maker to take with us......
and she even asked to take our cats???? WTF!
two set of ears heard that one, on previously stated above. my husband's and mine.

but then later on in a different conversation... she once again denied saying that and she never agreed to living alone?
and refuses to live in a three bedroom apartment alone! REFUSES...lol

but when asked why.... she wont give you an answer.
she just refuses....

well i for one don't see her packing, and i don't see her scrambling for the door.... she is expecting everyone to do it,(the packing) for her.

my husband put it in writing, that he will be over once a month, to pay half the rent. and fulfill this contractual obligation. so no one will be ruining their credit.
and if she want's to pull the plug on this.... so be it!
we already have our place...... what does she have- 11 months of thinking about it.... and procrastination.<she is very good at that!
after September 1, 2012 the money stops.

i even brought up the fact of maybe one of her friends from work could move in with her.... but if she doesn't trust me, and even her own brother... she is not going to trust someone from work.
major trust issues... that's why we are in the mess we are in.

if our lord and savior Jesus Christ came up to her and said hey lolo.... i'm going to be bunking with you from now on.... she would not trust him..... lol
that's how bad it is with her.

she sure did put up a great front before we moved in together.... Oscar performance, had me convinced!