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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Texas
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It has been a complete slap in my face and 360 turn around. From being in love thinking this is the one to omg I can't believe I never say the signs. The big reason I really have to wait on his is because I bought him a 48 gallon aquarium the poor fish would die with out oxygen . I figured it was the least I could do since he spent over $2000 on a ring. So I cant just throw his stuff out even thought I completely agree with you and wish I could. He came home and calling me sweetie I love you blah blah. |
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I totally agree with Little on this. Don't worry about the fish, your well being is more important. Bag 'em up and take them to the nearest fish/aquarium store - call around, some stores (at least here where I live) will take them for you if you are moving etc. Years ago I used to have salt and fresh water tanks and when we moved we did the same with our fish.
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Keep the fish in the house until he wants them back, or just send them to his mother's house. Send everything to his mother's house. If she was so adamant against you, she should be happy to have her little boy's things back.
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: MI
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I love this response!
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Quitters never win; Winners don't give in
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Texas
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I got dressed this morning decided to dress up cute to make me feel better. But now I am feeling very sad, trying to control my crying
. I just wrote this because this is how I feel right now.I have a house but not a home I have a man but he is a stranger I have a relationship that is a lie I have a ring that represents a lie I have only loneliness My ideas of a family is shattered My ideas of a husband are destroyed My ideas of a happy life is no more What is left nothing but guilt and shame |
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Join Date: Dec 2007
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It sounds like you have put everything into this guy. Live your life for you -not someone else. Live your dreams. If you feel very depressed - go take a run or a walk - excercise will help you feel a lot better and you will soon meet someone new. In the meantime take care of yourself.
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Junior Member
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Texas
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Yes in the end that is what happened.
I thought I was doing everything right. I had my list of qualities I was looking for in a man. I was 26years old at the time. But when I met his family and was the outsider coming in and they didn't approve that killled the whole make sure he is family oriented I was looking for. I never got to see how he intereacted with family and friends because I was the plague. I never got to chit chat with the girls and get more of a background on what type of guy he was. I never got to call up his sisters or mom and say lets spend the day shopping or lets go get a bite. I tried so many time to have them over for dinner I would spend the day getting food ready (he has a big family) get the steaks and shrimp cooked then to find out an hour before dinner they weren't coming or not even a phone call. I have never treated anyone or would ever treat anyone the way I was treated. In my family when someone new comes in you welcome them get to know them. you want to know the person that my family member is dating that is making them smile you don't treat them like they are nothing I went strictly by what he told me how he acted towards me. Boy was I ****** 4 years later to find out I was being lied to. |
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