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WH Super Moderator
You will never get her to stop doing meth. Only she can do that. She has to want it and even then it is extremely hard to get off of. Sounds like she is doing exactly what she wants. I can see why her husband left her.
The most important thing right now is getting those kids out of that situation and away from her. I know she is your closest friend but you are not protecting her by standing by and doing nothing. Please, please, make an anonymous tip to the police about her meth use and let someone know that these kids need to be in a safe environment!!
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Junior Member
she needs help FAST
Id honestly get the police or childrens services involved. If you care about that child that is what you do. As you even stated you would hate to see somthing happen. Well let me tell you its only a matter of time before it does! This is child abuse!
You have to think above your feelings for her and think of that child. There is NO way in id allow my friend to do this. I would have her *** thrown in jail so fast as that may be the only way to help her.
Meth is TERRIBLE. I can mess you up permanenly and it doesn't some serious phyisical damage FAST! Just look on the internet at people that have used meth makes you sick! Its very very addictive too.
Do the right thing! BEFORE its too late.
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Administrator
A good friend of mine's mother did meth.
She had a meth lab in her house.
It blew up and nearly killed her mother. She lives with burn scars and is lucky to be alive.
My friend was only lucky to be living with her father at the time.
Another friend of mine's next door neighbor had a meth lab that blew up ... luckily, she lived out in the country where the houses were far apart.
It's only a matter of time before a casual meth loser becomes a hardcore user, before the hardcore user becomes the creator of meth.
That's why the police in my state are cracking down; "Meth Free Tennessee." It's a horrible drug.
You did all you can do without bringing in intervention. When her children are grown and don't hate her, don't need extensive counseling, and aren't emotionless killers because of the scarring enacted on them by their mother, she will thank you.
Or maybe she won't have the hindsight to do so, but if her children do, they definitely do.
Call the police or child services. Help them to put her into a detox/addiction program. By doing this, you're really helping her.
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VIP Member
Everybody is telling her to call the cops, but she already said she doesn't want to do that. Believe me, I wish she would call the police or
child protective services, but it doesn't sound like she is even considering that as an option.
I gave her all the advice I could think of that didn't involve the law, but I think the law is going to catch up with that girl sooner or later. I'm surprised that the guy who came and took his kid away didn't bring the law down on her.
Jen hasn't logged in since the 14th, maybe she did finally call the cops.
I don't know...
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